"Single for four years... what has changed in my life?"

🫶 Because over the past four years, we have given ourselves our full time, not because no one has entered, but because we have chosen to live with ourselves to recover, heal and grow better.

Want to share a self-love experience that we are very proud of

📍 first three months - cry enough and reset your mind.

We allow ourselves to cry, regret and lament, not to press down on feelings, not to be strong, to cry enough, because crying is one of the best forms of drainage. It allows us to release and gradually cross through the pain more quickly, and then cut everything to an end without mourning, without any relationship again, like pressing a big reset button.

💭 Lesson: "Crying is not weakness, but the beginning of being truly strong."

📍 First Year - Explore the Heart, Learn from Disappointed Love

We spend time deeply reviewing everything, exploring ourselves in past relationships, what kind of people we are, what mistakes we have made, or what we have done, and we dare to accept our disadvantages and begin to see the advantages we have overlooked.

💭 Lesson: "True love must first begin to see and forgive itself."

📍 Year 2 - Develop yourself the way your heart wants.

We started getting to know ourselves more, gradually writing a checklist of things we wanted to develop, wanted to try, wanted to do, and took it seriously bit by bit, not in a hurry, but consistently. All is to develop ourselves more embracing and loving ourselves than ever before. Body, mind and life.

💭 Lesson: "Being alone is not the absence of anyone, but the fulfillment of yourself."

📍 Year 3 - Grow outside the box and dare to change.

Let's get out of the old frame. Try to find new experiences that are challenging and inspiring. We seriously improve ourselves in many areas. Whether it's education, work, finance, exercise, including taking ourselves on a journey, doing what we dreamed of, adjusting our lifestyle until everything starts to fit. We dare say, "I love myself very well." Nothing can hurt us anymore. We choose to spend time with the people who love us and the people we love. We enjoy every aspect of our growth. It's one of the proudest years of our lives.

💭 Lesson: "When we love ourselves enough, we attract good things without running after them."

📍 Year 4 - Happiness each day is our goal.

We know that "being happy every day" is the real goal, and we have achieved it. Alone feels that it is very good to have someone again. He must be someone worthy of the love we have for not only anyone, but also someone we can love and love ourselves.

We don't rush, don't lower standards, don't let go of a single item on our list because we've spent a lot of time thinking about what kind of person we want in life, and the amazing thing is... when we love ourselves enough, it becomes a charm that attracts a lot of good people until we finally find "that person."

See you at the right time. See you at a time when we're all grown up. It's really worth the wait and taking care of yourself for four years.

Please encourage everyone who hasn't met the right person, but don't forget that...

Being alone is not scary at all; it is a great opportunity to care for, love and develop yourself fully.

You can go anywhere alone. Doing anything by yourself is comfortable. Life can be happy without anyone...

💬 Compendium of these 4 years:

• Being alone does not mean failure in love.

• But it is the "golden opportunity" of life to develop all aspects.

• It's time for us to love ourselves the best to meet the best at the right time.

• And believe me... a new love will be precious because we've been through enough to know

"Who should we choose and who should we be with so that we no longer forget ourselves?"

📌 For anyone who hasn't met the right person...

Don't rush. Don't rush. Don't devalue yourself just for fear of loneliness.

Stay with yourself well, love yourself enough, and keep improving.

One day... you will find someone who makes you thank yourself today for not choosing the wrong person.

Because the best... always comes at a time when we're "best prepared."

Thank you to everyone who finished reading. 🫶💕

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