May I ask why I can't learn to fight my friends?😭

👧🏻 Hello ~ Who has ever felt the same, why we are always behind everyone else, even in the same class, in the same class?

🥹 today, Seef wants to tell from his own experience, and suddenly feels, "Why can't we learn to fight friends?" Although we didn't really learn badly!

👉🏻 First of all, I have to say that the safe is a good student. The grades in the school are good at it. It still feels like, "Well, we're good." Homework, exams, no problems. There are some subjects that are not good at it, but they can pass through iterations.

👉🏻 until the sixth grade before college, he started to feel that many of his friends were "really good," not only in the classroom, but he prepared for the college exam very seriously, read in advance, took the old exam, and we felt that, OK, we might be good in our own way, but that was "good in our own world."

👉🏻 And then when he went to college, it became clear that the people he was good at learning were not only studying to pass the exam, but learning to understand and use it, and we could study, and the grades were not bad, but it felt that "they still can't fight."

⭐ the safe way to deal with this feeling.

1. Set yourself the goal of studying for something, not just the system.

2. Compare with friends, but do not compare until the fire is exhausted. Be inspired enough.

3. Put the plan and make it real. Don't just think.

4. Encourage yourself often that we are okay, but we can still improve.

🙋🏻‍♀️ And everyone, have you ever experienced this feeling? Know when and how to handle it? Let's share it in the comments. Wait and read.

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