WASTED, JUST MK IT MK SENSE....
#emergingcreator trying to figure out what these 2 humans,could possibly have in common.....hes 60 yrs old w record, had no house, or vehicle, grown kids, no job. owes me lots of money, want talk to me after 21 year relationship...he said every day, to me, I LOVE U, AFTER 2 WKS DATNG, HE ASK ME HOW LONG I WAS GONNA MK HIM WAIT TO MARRY HIM , 2 WKS LATER WE WERE SAYING I DO. FOR A GOOD YEAR, I WAS SHOWERED W GIFTS, NICE RESTAURANTS, AND ROSES, GALLORE. TREATED ME LIKE A QUEEN. I HAD 6 FIGURE INCOME, TOOK HIM AND HIS DAUGHTER INTO MY HOME, AND TREATED THEM EXTREMELY GOOD. TIL HIS DAUGHTER STARTED STEALING AND DISRESPECTING ME, BUT I STILL TRIED AND TRIED BEING GOOD TO HER/ THEM....SHE PREGNANT N HIGHSCHOOL. I TOOK CARE OF HER BABY ALLDAY EVERYDAY SO SHE COULD GO BACK TO SCHOOL...THEN FIND OUT HOW BOTH OF THEM, LIE AND LIE AND LIE TO ME, NO RESPECT THEN SHE HAS ANOTHER BABY.. THEN THEY START STEALING MY PRESCRPT MEDS. HER FOR HER AND HER BESTIES. HIM FOR HIS FEMALES.....them I start getting accussed. all I every wanted from him, was love me, show me, and faithfulness. 4 yrs I ask this. then he starts sending money to all kinds of females and aid. its just TALK, THEN HE STARTS LEAVING ME PLACES ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS MEETIN WHOES AND PROSTITUES. NOW WANT SPEAK A WORD TO ME. BEEN 16 MTHS AND MY HEART IS BREAKING. I CANT EVEN MK MYSELF FORGET. FEEL LIKE WISH DIDNT HV TO B HERE. I KNOW IM CRAZY FOR FEELING LIKE THIS AFTER ALL HES PUT ME, AND OUR FAMILY MTHROUGH. HE HAS NO REMORSE FOR ANYTHING HES DONE OR SAID, OR HASNT DONE AND STILL CHASING THE FEMALES...BEST CON U EVER MEET...I CANT BELEIVE I FELL N LOVE AND BELEIVED N HIM. AND HE SAID I QUITE ON HIM!!!!!! This WASNT THE FAIRYTALE I WISHED FOR WHEN I WAS A LITTLE GIRL!!! wouldn't wish this hurt on my Enemy....now u been warned...
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