Should I kicking my friend off my Netflix account?

I have a friend who uses my Netflix. I pay for it. I gave them the password a while back so that we could watch a show we’d been looking forward to together. That was a few months ago, and I didn’t bother revoking access afterwards. They have their own profile. Since then we’ve drifted from being close to being relatively distant, and I don’t really feel like having them on my Netflix anymore. There’s no real reason. I gave them the password because we were good friends and now we’re not. I’m concerned that I’d be the asshole because I’d be revoking their access to the site without warning, and I know that they use it regularly to watch shows with other people via Netflix Party. I don’t want to ruin the fun, and my reasoning seems unjustified and petty. But it bothers me anyway. So will I be the asshole for just kicking them out because I feel like we’re not best friends anymore?

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2024/3/4 Edited to

... Read moreIt's so tricky when friendships and shared subscriptions collide, isn't it? I totally get that feeling of 'Am I the bad guy?' when you just want control over something you pay for. We've all probably been in a situation where we've shared our Netflix account, given out that password thinking it's no big deal, and then things change. What started as a kind gesture can quickly become a bit of a headache, especially with Netflix's recent crackdowns on sharing outside your household. Many people don't realize how easy it is to manage who has access to your Netflix. If you're pondering whether to revoke access, remember, it's your account and your subscription. Netflix has made it clearer that accounts are meant for one household, and they even send notifications when a 'new device is using your account,' which can sometimes be a subtle reminder of whose account it truly is. So, what can you actually do if you decide it's time to take back your Netflix account? First, a simple and effective step is to change your Netflix password. This immediately signs out everyone from the account. After changing it, you can then sign back in on your own trusted devices. This offers a clean break without needing a direct confrontation. Another option, often found under your 'netflix my account' settings, is the 'Manage access and devices' or 'Sign out all devices' feature. This gives you a bit more control without necessarily changing your password right away, but changing the password is the most definitive way to ensure only you have the new key to your digital kingdom. For those who frequently sign in via a browser, knowing how to manage these sessions is key to maintaining security. Now, for the awkward part: the conversation. If you feel comfortable, a direct but kind approach is often best. You could say something like, 'Hey, just letting you know I'm updating my Netflix account and will be changing the password soon. It's just for my household now.' Or, if you want to soften the blow, 'I'm trying to cut down on my expenses / simplify my subscriptions, so I'll be securing my Netflix account.' You could even suggest they look into their own subscription plans, which start around $7.99/month, especially if they're relying on it for Netflix Party with others. This puts the ball in their court without making you feel like the villain. Ultimately, managing your Netflix account means having control over who uses your paid service. It's perfectly valid to want that control back, whether it's for privacy, cost, or just because circumstances have changed. Don't feel petty for wanting to manage what's yours. It’s a common modern-day dilemma, and there are straightforward ways to handle it with minimal drama.

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Girl no. NTA. It’s your account and you guys don’t talk anymore. If they want Netflix, they can pay for it themselves. You don’t owe them anything and you were being nice as is. Just change the password if you don’t want to actually tell them to not go on it anymore.

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Change the password then dodge any of her requests to get it back

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