I didn’t slow down because life told me to.I slowed down because nothing was responding to my effort anymore. The texts stopped leading anywhere. The constant planning stopped producing clarity. Even my prayers shifted,not because I stopped believing, but because I stopped performing.
There was a stretch where I wasn’t being pushed forward or pulled back. I was just, there. At first, I kept trying to fill it.
More activity.
More thinking.
More checking to see if I was missing
something.
Then one day it hit me, nothing was missing.
The quiet wasn’t a gap. It was a settling.I realized how often I used motion to avoid sitting with uncertainty. How busy I stayed so I wouldn’t have to admit I didn’t have the next step yet.
But in that still place, I wasn’t confused.
I was clear in a different way.
I knew what I wasn’t supposed to touch.
I knew what didn’t need my energy.
I knew I could stop reaching.
And that’s when I understood,stillness wasn’t stalling me. It was positioning me.I wasn’t waiting. I was being held.
... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, we're often encouraged to stay busy, to keep moving forward at all costs. From my personal experience, this constant motion can sometimes cloud our inner wisdom rather than reveal it. Like Deon Michelle beautifully expressed, I too found that slowing down wasn't about giving up but about rediscovering my foundation. When I stopped chasing what I thought I needed to accomplish, I realized that much of my anxiety came from trying to control outcomes that were beyond my grasp.
Sitting in stillness allowed me to connect with a deeper sense of peace and clarity. The phrase “became herr with God” found in the image resonates with me as a reminder that surrendering to this quiet place isn't a sign of weakness but of trust. It's in these pauses that I learned to distinguish between what deserved my energy and what was merely noise. Accepting periods of stillness helped me become anchored, not in fear or confusion, but in faith and purpose.
I also noticed that when life doesn't respond to our efforts, it might be preparing us for something greater. This stillness can position us strategically, offering a mental and emotional reset before the next chapter unfolds. In practical terms, embracing these quiet moments improved my decision-making and reduced the mental clutter that exhausted me.
If you find yourself stuck in activity without progress, consider this: stillness is not stalling you. It is one of the most profound forms of movement — inward movement that grounds you deeply and prepares you fully. From my journey, I encourage others to welcome stillness as an essential part of growth and to see it as a sacred pause that nurtures resilience and clarity.
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