What to remind people who are getting married if they don't want to divorce later?

Something to remind of before you get married.

From people who have been married and divorced.

... from the heart.

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If you don't want to see the experience before you dress up, you want to read it first.

1. Know your partner's habits deeply, see each other's true elements when he and you are most angry.

- You need to see how he handles his anger and how they both fight.

🔺 we were shocked that when we were together, he was so angry that we were terrified.

2. Want to try to live together first if you can adapt

- The little things in life are very important, maybe it will become a big problem if the other person refuses to adapt.

🔺 about eating food without washing dishes, putting things out of the way, we have to keep up. It's very tired. It makes one person lose love.

3. Financial matters. Talk to clear.

- When they're at home, they have to eat and shop.

When traveling, any investment is very important. If the other side spends money and the other side makes money, then one side has to be exploited.

🔺 some fans want to put money into the business, but the other person wants to save money to prepare for retirement. Now, the problem starts because they look different.

4. Sex is inevitable. Need to talk.

If you open it, try it first, but if it's inconvenient, you have to talk about your needs, taste, talk to each other, clear up, know each other well, because it's very difficult to change.

🔺 my friend is a man, but my girlfriend doesn't like it, then have to accept or change new girlfriend

5. Thai society, family, girlfriend = our family

- I have to know his family well, because so many couples are the mastermind of life, sometimes a family of boyfriends can come to us.

Some 🔺 have to move into the same house as their parents.

6. If thinking of having children, have to talk to clear duty.

- Plan. How many people will raise? Hire? Study well before you have children.

🔺 our friend said that the husband refused to raise the child, had to take the child to the mother's house on Saturday and Sunday to go home to live with her husband, and that was the burden on the mother of the friend.

7. His friends reflect him best.

- You must know his best friend, because the person he's dating reflects him very well.

🔺 when dating, the girlfriend is a good person, very nice, but his friends look like loosers, after dressing up, not very different from their friends.

8. Deep talk to each other.

- You have to admit, the day you choose him as your soul mate, that he will be your closest friend, that he must be someone who can talk to each other, consult each other, not like each other, but finally be together.

🔺 when we were early 20s, we were dating our boyfriends all day, happy until one day we got married, and found that the day we grew up, he wasn't ready for us, couldn't talk about work issues, couldn't talk about things like talking to his best friend.

9. Talk deeply to your life path and long-term goals.

- I have to ask you what your life path will do. If your goals are so different, you can't keep going.

🔺 Some people want to live, work, but my girlfriend wants to live in Thailand, it can't go together.

10. Doing activities together. Important!!!

- Doing activities together is something that makes you know each other better.

To know if it's compatible, the other introvert and the extrovert together will be uncomfortable.

🔺, when I was a girlfriend, I just went to eat and watch movies, but after getting married, I lived a lot more together. I really like to do activities outside the house, and he likes to stay in the house. He often blames us for leaving the house, the lifestyle is too different.

11. Watching when we are sick

- See if he takes care of us when we're sick, or do we have to take care of ourselves?

🔺 we used to be terminated because we were often sick. 🥹

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