6 quotes I wished you knew as a 36 year old
Hey SGFC Fam!
Happy Tuesday! 😘
I’m turning 36 this December, and looking back, I think I’ve been through quite a bit — some of it, honestly, more than I would’ve wished for.
But I also realised that some of the hardest chapters of my life taught me lessons that the good times never could.
Over the years, I’ve come across certain quotes that hit differently because I’ve actually lived through them.
So here are 6 quotes that resonated deeply with me, and the life lessons behind why they mean so much to me today.
Maybe one of them is something you need to hear right now too. ❤️
#lifebeyondwork #intentionalliving #lifelessons #growth #mindset
Turning 36 feels like a significant milestone where reflection on past experiences naturally surfaces. The quotes shared resonate deeply because they remind us of universal truths many of us tend to overlook during tough times. For instance, the idea that "You prayed for rainbows, so don't be upset at the rain" reminds me that patience and acceptance through struggles often lead to unexpected beautiful outcomes. I've personally found that embracing hardships with this mindset helped me stay hopeful during stressful periods. Similarly, the affirmation "It's gonna be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end" is a comforting mantra that encourages resilience. Whenever I face setbacks, repeating this phrase grounds me and motivates me to keep moving forward because every chapter eventually changes. The insight that "We suffer more in our imagination than reality" highlights the power of our minds to create exaggerated worries. I used to lie awake overthinking what might go wrong, only to find reality far less daunting. This lesson has taught me to practice mindfulness and focus on present moments rather than imagined fears. Another profound quote is about relationships: "The longer you stay on the wrong train, the more expensive it is to get home." This wisdom made me evaluate unhealthy connections and inspired me to prioritize my well-being over familiarity or past investments. Recognizing when a friendship is one-sided—"They were my friends, but I wasn't theirs"—is painful but necessary for personal growth. I learned to appreciate reciprocal relationships and not force bonds where appreciation is absent. Lastly, the quote about criticism, "Don't take criticism from someone you won't take advice from," is a powerful reminder to filter whose opinions truly matter. This helped me protect my mental space and self-confidence from unwarranted negativity. Reflecting on these quotes, I realize they are not just words but lessons earned through lived experience. For anyone approaching mid-thirties or any significant life transition, embracing these truths can foster intentional living, emotional resilience, and meaningful growth.