Brunette>Blonde💖

Deciding whether to go blonde or stay brunette has become a huge internal debate for me, especially after my past hair disaster. You know that saying, 'Blondes have more fun'? Well, based on my 2020 experience, I’d argue that sometimes, blondes don't have more fun, especially when a bad salon experience leaves your hair completely 'destroyed.' For two years, I had to grow out my hair, covering the trauma with my 'natural roots' color, until I finally embraced 'freshly dyed dark brunette hair' in June 2024. And honestly, I've loved it. Being brunette has simplified my routine immensely. No more worrying about brassiness, less product, and my hair feels so much healthier. My 'eyebrows and lashes' finally blend in without makeup, which was a huge relief compared to when I had 'long, light blonde hair' in 2019. I used to be so lazy with upkeep, not using the correct products, and my makeup skills weren't developed enough to really make the blonde pop. With dark hair, I feel like I finally have that 'wow' effect, and my makeup looks more cohesive. But here's the thing: the allure of blonde is still there, isn't it? It’s what I *want*. I see 'Inspo pic #1' and 'Inspo pic #2' of beautiful blonde hair, and I just feel like it brightens my complexion. This time, I’m approaching it completely differently. I’ve found a 'verified blonde specialist' – someone with a great reputation, and that gives me so much confidence. I know a 'bad salon experience' can be traumatic, but I’ve learned my lesson about cutting corners or going to unverified places. If you’re considering a big hair transformation like me, here are a few things I’ve learned and questions I’m asking myself: Research, research, research! Don't just pick any salon. Look for specialists in the color you want. Check reviews, portfolios, and ask for consultations. My previous mistake was trying to save money at a beauty school, which, in hindsight, was a risk I wasn't prepared for. Be brutally honest about upkeep. Are you truly ready for the commitment? Blonde hair, especially, requires specific shampoos, conditioners, masks, and heat protectants. Are you willing to invest the time and money? I know I wasn't before, but I am now. Consider your natural features. How will the new color complement your skin tone, 'natural roots,' and 'eyebrows and lashes'? Sometimes a drastic change can make you feel washed out or require a complete makeup overhaul. Have realistic expectations. Show your stylist 'inspo pics,' but understand that your hair's history, current condition, and natural undertones will influence the final result. Going from 'freshly dyed dark brunette hair' to blonde is a huge process, often requiring multiple sessions. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. What's your fallback plan if you hate it or if there's damage? Knowing you can go back to your 'dyed hair' color, even if it means temporary issues, can ease some anxiety. I’m accepting that my previously bleached hair might not hold color well, but it’s a risk I’m willing to take this time around, knowing I’m better prepared. Ultimately, this is my hair journey, and I want to feel amazing in my own skin. While my friends and family love the brunette, this decision is for me. What do you think about making such a big change?