before my 20s, after my 20s

Reflecting on life before and after your 20s is a powerful way to see how much personal growth can occur within just a few years. I’ve found that before my 20s, my mindset was largely shaped by the desire for approval and external validation, much like the phrase 'primadonna girl' suggests—wanting the world and recognition for everything I did. However, entering my 20s forced me to reassess what truly mattered. During my early 20s, the concept of a 'glow up' felt both literal and metaphorical. It wasn’t just about physical appearance but an internal transformation—gaining confidence, clarifying priorities, and understanding self-worth beyond societal expectations. I learned to balance ambition with self-care, which led to healthier relationships and stronger personal growth. What stood out most during this period was recognizing that all I ever wanted was the world, but the 'world' started to take on new meaning: not just fame or material success, but meaningful connections, mental well-being, and purpose-driven goals. This shift helped me embrace imperfections and appreciate my unique journey rather than comparing myself to others. I encourage anyone going through this transitional phase to focus on their own evolution. Celebrate each step of growth, maintain resilience through challenges, and prioritize authenticity over perfection. Your 20s are a canvas—embrace every shade of your glow up, inside and out.