A rejection that changed my life path
“Try and fail, but don’t fail to try.” – John Quincy
This quote hits differently after everything I’ve been through.
I had a plan.
Get a stable full-time job first… then start a family.
But life had other plans.
In my last week of probation, I found out I was pregnant.
Not long after, I was let go.
Indirectly, it felt like I was being rejected… just because I was about to become a mother.
And in that moment, I kept thinking—
If pregnancy already puts me at a disadvantage…
what happens after my baby is born?
Will I have to choose between earning an income or being there for her?
That thought didn’t sit right with me.
So instead of chasing the same path again…
I decided to build a different one.
A path where:
❌I don’t have to hide my life stage
❌I don’t have to choose between time and income
❌I don’t miss the little moments that matter
That’s how I started my online business.
I’m still growing.
Financially, I’m not at my end goal yet.
But today, I have something I once feared I couldn’t have—
✨ Time with my baby
✨ A growing source of income
✨ And a life I’m building on my own terms
Looking back, that “rejection” wasn’t the end.
It was redirection.
And maybe…
the best thing that could have happened to me 🤍
Facing job rejection during pregnancy is an experience shared by many women worldwide, and it often brings up tough questions about job security and work-life balance. When I first faced the challenge of losing my job while expecting, the feelings of uncertainty and frustration were overwhelming. It’s common for pregnant women and new mothers to worry about how their life stage might impact their career opportunities. This experience ignited my determination to find a path where motherhood and career could coexist harmoniously. Starting an online business became my solution—a way to reclaim control over my schedule and income. Many moms like me have found that digital entrepreneurship allows flexibility to be present for important family moments while steadily growing financially. One key insight I gained is that building a successful business from home demands patience and continuous learning. At first, the income may not match traditional jobs, but over time, with dedication, it can become a reliable source of revenue. Plus, the emotional benefit of not having to choose between being a parent and earning money is invaluable. Networking with other mompreneurs and joining supportive online communities can also provide encouragement and practical advice. This support system was instrumental for me in navigating challenges and staying motivated. Moreover, trends show that live streaming and other entry-level online jobs in regions like Singapore offer competitive salaries with flexible schedules, which can be an excellent stepping stone for moms seeking remote work options. These opportunities provide training and the potential to increase earnings as skills improve. Ultimately, what started as a rejection transformed into a redirection that led to greater autonomy and fulfillment. For anyone facing similar obstacles, remember that setbacks can be the catalyst for profound personal growth and new opportunities. Embracing change, cultivating resilience, and exploring new career paths—especially in the digital realm—can open doors to balancing meaningful work and family life effectively.
