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Hurting people in one way...

A word that turned out that all the interactions so far were lies in an instant. Couldn't you have been a little more considerate? I think I was able to choose my words. I think I was full of myself rather than the other person getting hurt when I saw it... The reason why I can see it and still return kind words is not because the person is kind, but because I realized everything and gave up everything and avoided that the wound would become bigger. "You don't need it" Depending on the viewer, I feel that it's okay to be straight. I feel that it depends on how you perceive it... I feel that I could at least change the way I say it a little more? What? Worst... What is this guy? I feel angry. Among the various things, the recipient quietly said, "I didn't have a connection, but it would have been nice to have a little more gentle words, right?" How should I answer... That's right! Do you agree with it or deny it? I couldn't say anything, I didn't even feel like it. I didn't speak easily because I knew the interactions and situations between the two so far. How did I say it?

I don't know the correct answer

# There is no right answer

2025/9/8 Edited to

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