One year post big chop update…

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In October of last year, 2023, I cut my hair and it was the best decision ever and here is why ⬇️

So I started growing my hair since March of 2018. I was just 14 and although my hair managed to grow I had no idea how to take care of it. I didn’t know what products to use and what protective hairstyles to try. On top of that I did a lot of treatments on my hair without knowledge on how to properly apply those treatments. Around 2021 I permed my hair and in 2022 I colored my hair and permed it again. All this with a couple of other things made my hair to start thinning out and falling (literally) while washing it.

In October 2023 I decided to cut my hair and do some research on 4c hair. I know some things now (I am still learning) and I was able to grow my hair out within a year. I grew it long enough to make two braids.

Taking care of my hair was a lot but I am proud of my decision and can see that properly taking care of my hair for one year retained more length than experimenting with my hair for 5 years.

The first picture is a picture of me hours after I cut my hair. The second is a picture of me a year after I cut my hair and the third is a picture of me hours before I cut my hair.

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2024/11/5 Edited to

... Read moreEmbarking on a big chop journey like mine can be incredibly freeing, but I know firsthand that two of the biggest worries are often 'What hairstyles can I even do?' and 'How do I deal with or prevent thin edges?' When I decided to cut my hair on Oct. 31, 2023, after years of damage and seeing my own hair thinning out and falling, these thoughts definitely crossed my mind too. My goal was simple: healthy growth, and a year later, as my full, dark natural afro flourishes, I want to share what I've learned to help you embrace your new beginning! One of the most exciting parts of a big chop is rediscovering your natural texture, even when it's super short. Initially, I rocked my very short, dark natural hair with confidence. The beauty of it is how low-maintenance it can be! For those first few months, I experimented with different wash-and-go routines, focusing on deep conditioning to keep my curls moisturized and defined. Headbands became my best friends – they're a quick way to add a pop of color or style without any tension. Scarves also became a staple, offering versatility and protection, especially on those days I just wanted a different look or extra warmth. As my hair started growing, reaching that 'one year update Oct. 31, 2024' stage, I could finally try out more styles. I started with mini twists, which are fantastic for defining your curl pattern and stretching your hair. Finger coils are another great option for that textured look. And yes, just like I mentioned, I can now comfortably make two braids, which felt like a huge milestone! Embrace the versatility of your growing hair – a sleek low puff, cornrows (done gently, of course!), or simply letting your beautiful natural afro shine. The key is to be patient and enjoy the process of watching your hair transform. Now, let's talk about addressing thin edges, which was a huge concern for me with my 'hair before the big chop.' My edges were definitely suffering from all the perms and coloring, leading to significant thinning. After my big chop, I made it a priority to nurture them back to health. First, I completely avoided any styles that pulled on my hairline. That meant no tight ponytails or braids that felt uncomfortable. I learned that gentle handling is crucial. When washing or conditioning, I'm extra careful around my edges, using my fingertips to massage products in without scrubbing harshly. For actual growth, I incorporated a daily routine of massaging a natural oil blend (like castor oil mixed with peppermint or rosemary oil) into my hairline. The massage helps stimulate blood flow, and these oils are known for their hair growth properties. Consistency is key here; it won't happen overnight, but with dedication, you will see a difference. I also made sure to sleep on a satin pillowcase or wear a silk bonnet to prevent friction and breakage, especially around my delicate edges. Remember, the journey to healthy edges is just as much about what you don't do (avoiding tension, harsh chemicals) as it is about what you do (gentle care, nourishing oils). My experience taught me that with patience and the right routine, those thin spots can absolutely bounce back stronger than ever.

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