“Pretty Privilege? More Like Pretty Pointless!”

“So Apparently, Being Pretty Doesn’t Get You Anywhere”

Okay, so I’m just going to put this out there:

**being pretty** didn’t exactly open the doors to fame, fortune, or a whirlwind career in modeling like I thought it would. Spoiler alert: Pretty doesn’t pay the bills (unless you're in some *very* specific industries, but I’m not talking about those). Let’s just break it down, shall we?

1. I’m 5'2. Yeah. That's It.

When you’re 5’2", the world has *very* different expectations for you, and none of them include you strutting down a runway in a high fashion show. I’m not even sure I could strut without tripping over my own feet. So there’s that. If my height was supposed to be my ticket to the modeling world, I missed the memo. Not to mention, I have the stage fright of a middle schooler trying to present in front of the class, so runway walks? Not happening. Can’t even take a compliment without blushing.

2. I Slept on YouTube in Its Prime

Alright, this one is pretty embarrassing, but let's be honest: when YouTube first came around, I was like, “Nah, that’s not gonna last. I’ll stick to my MySpace page, thanks.” *Facepalm.* Who knew that making videos of yourself, whether it’s DIY tutorials, cooking lessons, or... I dunno, just vibing in front of a camera, could make you a millionaire? Meanwhile, I was busy doubting my personality and questioning if my voice sounded “dumb” on tape. Spoiler alert: *I’m still doing that*.

3. The Mom and Wife Insecurities

So here’s the thing: being a mom and a wife *should* feel empowering, right? But somehow, it’s more like a constant self-critique. Am I doing enough? Am I too much? Should I wear a nice outfit that screams “I’m still fun” but ends up making me feel like a fashion disaster? Am I raising my kids right, or are they going to end up on the “terrible kids of Instagram” page? You know, the one that makes you feel like you’re failing before your coffee’s even done brewing. Being pretty was supposed to make me feel confident, but nope, the anxiety of *trying* to be perfect did the opposite.

4. I’m Not About That Provocative Life

Yeah, I could’ve gone all sultry Instagram model and posted a bunch of provocative pics, but here’s the deal: I’m just not that kind of person. Maybe that would have been my ticket to Instagram fame, but instead, I was too busy worrying about looking *too* much like I was trying too hard. Turns out, you can’t dampen your beauty without also dampening your confidence. Who knew?

I’ve always believed in feeling comfortable in your own skin — but apparently, people don’t appreciate a good cozy sweater look as much as they do “wow, look at her in that barely-there outfit.” So here I am, in my DIY outfits, wondering if maybe if I showed a little more skin, the world might finally pay attention.

5. I’m Shy, Okay?

Let me paint the picture for you. Someone gives me a compliment, and I’m like:

“Wait, what? *Me?* Are you sure?”

I just can accept it. But, It’s like my brain short-circuits whenever someone says anything remotely nice. It’s just *awkward*. I start looking around like, “Are they talking to the person behind me? No? Oh, okay. Thanks... I guess?” Being pretty doesn’t come with a manual for how to take compliments, and trust me, I’m still waiting for that handbook to drop.

6. I’m Not Stuck Up—Promise!

Now, let’s address the elephant in the room. I don’t want to be the girl who gets called "stuck up" because I’m pretty. That’s not who I am. I’m just a normal, shy person trying to figure out how to not trip on my own feet when I walk into a room. I’m still awkward and constantly questioning my fashion choices (hello, sweatpants are a lifestyle). So when you see me looking like I *might* have my life together, just know that I’m probably two seconds away from Googling “how to adult better” on my phone.

DIY Photo Shoots: My One Claim to Fame (The shots above)

let’s talk about something I actually enjoy: DIY photo shoots. I’m *not* a professional photographer (though I really should be given the number of DIY photo shoots I’ve done). Seriously, I set up a camera, throw on something cute, and try to look like I have it all together. Usually, the shots come out good enough for me to feel like I did something, but then... they just don’t get the attention I think they deserve. You know what I’m talking about, right? The “Oh, look, here’s this picture that I spent hours on” post — and then *crickets*. And yet, I’m like, “Okay, here they are again, for those who missed it!”

But here’s the kicker: I still love it. Because even if the likes don’t roll in, I get to feel creative and do something that makes me happy. And honestly, isn’t that all that matters?

So, Here’s My Conclusion

Here’s the thing: being pretty *might* get you some attention in the beginning, but it’s not going to keep you there. In fact, being shy, self-conscious, and not wanting to wear skimpy outfits is pretty much the opposite of the formula for "Instagram success." But you know what? That’s okay. Maybe I’m not the next supermodel, influencer, or runway sensation. Maybe I’m just the girl who loves doing DIY shoots, taking the best awkward selfies, and occasionally doubting whether I’m good enough. But at least I’m being real — and that’s got to count for something, right?

Okay, enough rambling. I’m going to go try to take more cute photos now (and *hope* they get noticed). But hey, if you’ve made it this far, I’d love to hear from you. Drop a comment if you’re someone who feels the same way. Let's all hang out in this perfectly imperfect world. #unfiltered

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