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Who's been?

📣# Sis invited to talkWho was it? At the age of 15, I used to draw a dream...At the age of 25, I had to get married, have a big house, drive a car, and have a perfect life as in 💖✨ drama. The belief that "25 years old must get married" is like a "memory" or "Standard" that has long been rooted in Thai society. In fact, the 25-year-old life of this generation is more busy finding itself.

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✨ 25 is the ideal "balance point." Numerically, 25 is an age that looks "fully mature but not old."

Graduation: We usually have a bachelor's degree at the age of 21-22, work for three years, and I think we should get started.

Physical Readiness: It is when energy is most abundant, suited to starting a marriage or having children according to traditional beliefs.

It's exactly one quarter of a century, which makes it feel like an important peg in life.

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✨ influence from the generation of parents.

In the Baby Boomer or Gen X era, marriage between the ages of 20 and 25 was very normal. We grew up seeing our parents get married and having us when they were about this age.

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✨ "slow start" fear.

Especially for women, there are health and childbearing concerns. Many people aim to marry 25, have 27-28 children, to have children when their bodies are the strongest and grow up with their children.

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✨ but...In fact, at the age of 25 in this 2026 era, most people who really reach the age of 25 will often find that they have started working for a few years, are still confused with their career choices, have started collecting a little money, or some people still use the month of the month as an age to spend their money on traveling or following their dreams, so they don't want to commit to anyone.

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✨ we usually look at 25 from the point of view of "children who want to grow up," but when we become "adults at 25," we know that we still need a lot of time to find life.

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# Married # Double life # What hits know # SisHere# Sisheer

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... Read moreหลายคนในวัย 25 ปี อาจรู้สึกกดดันกับภาพมาตรฐานที่สังคมตั้งไว้ เช่น ต้องแต่งงาน มีครอบครัว และประสบความสำเร็จทางการเงิน แต่มุมมองนี้อาจทำให้เราเครียดและลืมให้เวลากับตัวเองในการค้นหาความชอบและความฝันจริง ๆ จากประสบการณ์ของหลาย ๆ คน พบว่าวัยนี้จริง ๆ แล้วยังเป็นช่วงเวลาที่กำลังค้นหาตัวเองอย่างหนัก เริ่มตั้งต้นทำงาน บางคนยังไม่แน่ใจในเส้นทางอาชีพ และเงินเดือนก็ยังไม่มากพอที่จะสร้างครอบครัวใหญ่ได้ทันที สิ่งสำคัญคือต้องเข้าใจว่าการแต่งงานหรือมีครอบครัวเป็นเรื่องของความพร้อมที่มาจากใจ ไม่ใช่แค่การตอบโจทย์ความคาดหวังของคนอื่น นอกจากนี้ หากมองจากภาพของวัย 25 ปีในปัจจุบัน จะเห็นว่าโอกาสและทางเลือกมีมากขึ้นกว่าสมัยก่อน ทำให้เราสามารถแบ่งเวลาสำหรับตัวเอง ไม่รีบเร่งกับเรื่องความรักหรือการมีลูก สิ่งเหล่านี้ช่วยให้สุขภาพจิตดีขึ้นและได้เติบโตเป็นผู้ใหญ่ที่มีความมั่นใจมากขึ้น สุดท้ายสิ่งที่อยากแนะนำคือให้เปิดใจยอมรับว่าชีวิตไม่จำเป็นต้องเป็นไปตามกรอบใดกรอบหนึ่ง การแต่งงานที่ดีต้องถูกต้องและเหมาะสมสำหรับตัวเราเท่านั้น ซึ่งการใจเย็นและให้เวลากับตัวเองจะช่วยทำให้พบการตัดสินใจที่ดีที่สุดในเวลาที่เหมาะสมจริง ๆ

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