God Never Asked Perfection, Just Your Obedience

God is teaching me a lot through this podcast. I remember thinking how I thought I would just help women overcome survival mode, how I’m overcoming it but the Holy Spirit had other plans. He showed me how I still need work, and have been learning ever since I started.

🎧 Episode 4 of The Soft Side Project™ is now live.

If you’ve ever delayed your purpose trying to get it “just right,” this one is for you.

💗 Let this be your reminder: You don’t have to make it perfect.

You just have to do it.

🔗 Listen here👉🏽https://thesoftsideproject.buzzsprout.com

#TheSoftSideProject #ObedienceOverPerfection #FaithOverFear #SoftnessIsStrength #ChristianPodcast

2025/9/24 Edited to

... Read moreThe journey of faith often challenges us with the misconception that every step must be flawless before we can truly move forward. However, as emphasized in The Soft Side Project™ podcast, God never demanded perfection; rather, He asks for our obedience. This profound message reminds us that waiting to get everything "just right" often keeps us from fulfilling our true purpose. Many people, especially women navigating survival mode, might feel stuck waiting for the perfect moment or circumstance to act. This episode sheds light on the transformational process of embracing imperfections as part of growth. The Holy Spirit’s guidance helps us recognize that our spiritual walk is a continuous learning experience, not a sprint to perfection. Listening to The Soft Side Project™ each Wednesday at 10 AM on platforms like Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon offers regular encouragement designed to uplift and empower. The hashtags #ObedienceOverPerfection and #FaithOverFear reflect the podcast’s core values—choosing trust in God over fear of failure and prioritizing action driven by faith rather than hesitation. Furthermore, the podcast highlights the strength found in softness, another powerful aspect of faith that challenges common stereotypes of strength. By tuning in, listeners can connect with these themes and find a supportive community sharing authentic experiences. For those who have delayed pursuing their calling due to the pressure of perfection, remember this vital reminder: progress stems from taking that first step in obedience. You don’t need to have everything figured out or flawless; God works through our sincere willingness to follow His lead. Start embracing obedience today, and watch how your purpose unfolds beautifully without the burden of perfectionism.

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