My Latest Song

title: No Love Loss

artist: solardisaster

on: stutter.Stammer

Love should NEVER hurt you! Nobody should ever hurt you.

You gotta handle it your way though! When you’re deciding what your way is though — just keep it in mind to remember you are loved and seeing you face that can be hard for your loved ones — so reach out to them in YOUR time, in YOUR way.

and if worse comes to worse — you can always email me names and addresses 😉

7/6 Edited to

... Read moreListening to 'No Love Loss' by Solardisaster really resonated with me because it highlights something we often overlook—love should never hurt. In my experience, recognizing that pain in a relationship is not a sign of weakness but a prompt to take care of yourself is crucial. When I went through a tough patch, I found that embracing my own timeline and way of healing was the turning point. Each person processes emotions differently, and it’s important to respect your own pace while also not shutting out support from loved ones. One line that stood out to me was about the difficulty loved ones face when seeing you struggle. That’s so true; sometimes people want to help but don’t know how. That’s why communication is key—letting them in on how you want to be supported can create a safe space for healing. Additionally, the phrase from the OCR "he was swimming in some questions to words he couldn't understand" really captures the confusion and helplessness you can feel in moments of emotional turmoil. When I related to that feeling, journaling helped me put those swirling emotions into words. It made it easier to find clarity and eventually move forward without regret. At the end of the day, songs like 'No Love Loss' remind us it’s okay to seek out what works best for us—whether that’s venting to a friend, taking a break from a relationship, or even reaching out for help through messages or emails, as the author humorously suggests. Self-compassion and reaching out in your own way are powerful steps to recovery and maintaining healthy connections.