Self books can’t do it, only God can …

This verse really stayed with me, and I’m sharing it as part of the gift God has given me.

As I was reading the Word, it hit me that so many times, especially because I have an entrepreneurial mindset and even in school, I’m always seeking more knowledge. I’m constantly a student. A lot of the knowledge I go after comes from self help books, other people, or YouTube. And don’t get me wrong, those are great resources.

But I realized there was one key element missing. I wasn’t seeking God first.

Because I skipped that step, I wasn’t being properly directed or guided. Practically speaking, I wasn’t always listening to the right things, the things that would actually support and align with the desires of my heart. I was searching, but I wasn’t putting God first.

This verse reminds me how easy it is to look to other people, other sources, and things outside of God. And I just want to challenge and encourage you. Your first step, when you’re down, when you’re searching for answers, when you’re unsure, should be going to the Word of God first.

It doesn’t matter if you’re choosing a specific scripture, reading casually, or even just listening to it. Simply listening is fulfilling to your soul and spirit. And then something shifts. You start receiving answers. You start hearing from God, sometimes in the most unexpected ways.

So my encouragement is simple. Seek God first.

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... Read moreReflecting on my own journey, I can relate deeply to the struggle of balancing knowledge from self-help books and the invaluable guidance found in faith. While self-help resources offer valuable tips and strategies, they often lack the profound direction that comes from seeking God first. I remember times when I poured over countless articles and videos trying to find answers to my challenges, only to feel more confused or empty. It wasn't until I intentionally placed God's wisdom at the center of my search that I noticed a meaningful shift. The verse, "Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you" (Matthew 6:33), became a daily reminder to prioritize spiritual connection over external sources. Implementing this habit practically meant starting my day with prayer and scripture reading before diving into any other materials. This refocus transformed how I interpreted advice from books or online content because I filtered them through the lens of God’s guidance. Instead of chasing every new trend or quick fix, I learned to wait patiently for peace and clarity that only faith could provide. Moreover, the act of simply listening to scripture or meditative worship helped nourish my spirit in ways that intellectual knowledge alone could not. These moments created space for unexpected insights and comfort during times of uncertainty. For anyone feeling overwhelmed by the deluge of self-help information or searching for meaning, I encourage making God the first source of wisdom. This doesn’t mean abandoning other resources but rather aligning all learning and growth with spiritual truth. God’s guidance not only brings answers but also peace and confidence that the path you take is right for your heart. Embracing this approach has been a powerful, ongoing gift in my life and can be yours too when you seek Him first.

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Amen!! Seeking and keeping God first is what will help bring us everything we need spiritually! And in turn will bless us here in the physical!

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