How I found out I wasn’t the only one😂
So long story short, I was dating this dude for like a couple weeks but we used to have an on and off “talk-ship” for like 3 years. So fast forward we into the second week of us talking and out of nowhere my friend’s brother whose house I was staying the night at overheard me talking about who I was dating. So he comes in the living room and says “you and someone else is dating that nigga” I’m not believing it because her brother tends to play too much. So he gives me her instagram and yes yall idc imma ask questions. I go to text her and ask is she messing with such and such. She goes to tell me they been dating for a couple months. I left it at that because it don’t be the females IT BE THE NIGGAS. So i call up my “nigga” and act like I’m in this unhappy mood and he goes “what’s wrong with you?” I just right off the back sent her instagram to him.😭 yeah we was gonna be real hilarious that night. The phone gets all quiet and he goes “who’s that?” I go “your girlfriend boo” he goes “that’s my bestie”. NIGGA HOW YOU GO FROM “who’s that?” To “that’s my bestie” I said “so you and ya bestie been dating for 3 months?” He says “you talked to her?” I ended the call right there. BECAUSE WHAT? Yall niggas got to be out ya damn mind. #relationshipadvice #shareyourthoughts #Lemon8Diary #relationship
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