How To Handle Mixed Signals

“Mixed signals are still a signal — and it’s a no.”

If someone is hot one day and cold the next… that’s a signal.

If they like you but won’t plan dates… that’s a signal.

If they say they miss you but don’t show up… that’s a signal.

The mistake people make is thinking confusion means potential.

It doesn’t. It means inconsistency.

Interest that’s real doesn’t require decoding.

You don’t have to analyze texts, reread tone, or wonder where you stand.

Clarity isn’t too much to ask for.

Effort isn’t asking for the moon.

And peace shouldn’t be something you have to earn.

If it’s mixed, it’s not aligned.

And choosing yourself is never the wrong answer.

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