Once I finally made it through the agency process, it was time for matching — and honestly, it felt a little like online dating.

I had a profile. Intended parents had a profile. If they liked mine, I reviewed theirs. If we both said yes, we had a match meeting.

My first match ended up getting pregnant on their own, so we went back to the drawing board. Then came more meetings… more waiting… more hoping for the right connection.

It was nerve-wracking and exciting all at once, but every meeting was leading me toward the family we were meant to help.

#SurrogacyJourney #SurrogateLife #GestationalSurrogate #buildingfamilies #faithoverfear

2025/11/16 Edited to

... Read moreStarting the surrogacy matching process can feel very much like a modern dating experience, where profiles represent hopes and expectations for building a family. When you begin, you'll be asked about your availability for match meetings, which typically last 30 minutes to an hour and are best held during business hours to facilitate scheduling. These meetings are critical as they allow both the surrogate and intended parents to connect personally and assess compatibility, ensuring a relationship based on trust and mutual understanding. A unique challenge many surrogates face is the uncertainty and emotional rollercoaster during this period. For example, you might match with intended parents who later become pregnant independently, sending you back to the search. This is a normal part of the journey and requires patience and resilience. Each meeting and waiting period, while nerve-wracking, is a step toward forming the bond necessary to support a growing family. Being open and honest during these match meetings helps create the right environment for all parties involved. It's essential to discuss expectations, emotional support, and logistics about medical appointments and legal processes. Surrogacy agencies often facilitate this by gathering availability and preferences early, showing just how organized and sensitive the matching phase is. Embracing the ups and downs with faith and hope can profoundly impact your surrogacy experience, turning challenges into opportunities to build life-changing connections. This process is not just about matching profiles but about building families and sharing journeys filled with faith, courage, and commitment. #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogateLife #GestationalSurrogate #buildingfamilies #faithoverfear

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