WHY DO YOU THINK HE’S GOING TO CHANGE

From my own experience, I've learned that hoping for change in someone's behavior, especially when it involves dishonesty, often leads to disappointment. Many times, individuals who repeatedly lie do so because it serves their interests, and unless they perceive consequences or a strong motivation to change, their behavior remains the same. One effective way I found to cope was shifting my mindset from trying to control or fix the situation to focusing on what I could control: my own actions and decisions. Instead of constantly questioning a partner's truthfulness, I concentrated on establishing boundaries and assessing whether the relationship was truly beneficial to me. Moreover, managing finances and personal resources independently was crucial. Just like the strategy of 'collecting rent' mentioned in the content, ensuring you have financial autonomy gives you strength and options. It's also important to acknowledge that understanding the pattern of dishonesty helps in making informed decisions. Accepting that a person is unlikely to change helps you prioritize your well-being and avoid endless emotional turmoil. Finding support from friends or communities facing similar experiences can also provide encouragement and practical advice. Ultimately, self-respect and knowing your worth guide you towards healthier choices. Rather than waiting for change, which may never come, investing energy in personal growth and surrounding yourself with trustworthy people leads to a more fulfilling life.