Why is that kiss important?

The World of Relationships: Episode...Why is that kiss important?

If you ask me, in a relationship between two people, what makes your heart beat?

Some might answer, "The word love."

Some might answer, "Hugging."

But believe it? Many relationship psychologists view "kissing" as one of the most powerful love languages.

And it's not just romantic.

Because sometimes...

One kiss can tell more than a hundred messages.

Kiss is a language that doesn't require words.

Humans have always been creatures that communicate through body language.

Before we even learn to speak,

Touch, hugging, or even kissing are all forms of communication that the brain deeply perceives.

When we kiss someone we feel good with,

The brain secretes many substances, such as

• Dopamine (dopamine = substance of happiness and motivation)

• Oxytocin (oxytocin = substance of attachment)

• Serotonin (serotonin = substance related to happiness and peace)

Simply put,

The brain is saying

"Hey...This person is important. "

Why do some people kiss and feel it?

Ever?..

Good looking

Talk right

Compatible habits

But after kissing and feeling that

"Uh...Like something weird. "

Don't panic.

Because many studies have found that kissing is one of the ways the brain unknowingly estimates a couple's compatibility.

The smell, the rhythm of the response, and the sense of security that occurs during intimacy.

Sounds more like science than a love movie.

Kissing is not just important when starting to love.

Many people think that a kiss is for the promotional phase of a relationship.

While still embarrassed

The range still calls the other "she."

It's not "you."

But in fact, long-term relationship studies have shown that couples who still consistently kiss have higher levels of relationship satisfaction.

The reason is not because the kiss is good.

But because a kiss symbolizes an emotional connection,

Emotional Connection (Emotional Connection = Sentimental Connection)

Kissing doesn't always mean love.

Come here, just don't get it wrong.

Because in the real world,

Kisses aren't always proof that people love us.

Some people kiss very well.

But I can't communicate.

Some people kiss very sweet.

But disappeared for three days, not answering LINE

Some people kiss like a series hero.

But when there is a problem, disappear like a ninja

So...

A kiss can be part of love.

But not all of love.

So what kind of good kiss is that?

The answer may not be technical.

Not the front corner.

Not a minute long.

But it is the kiss that makes both sides feel comfortable, safe and respected.

Because the heart of a good relationship

It's not that the other person reads our mind.

But to care about each other's feelings.

Finally...

Kisses may not be the most important thing in love.

But it's not as trivial as many people think.

Because it's the short time two people choose to pause everything.

To tell the other party without words that

"I'm still here."

And sometimes

A short sentence that doesn't speak out.

It may mean more than the word love.

P.S. If love is a class, a kiss is not a final exam, but a collection score that affects the same total grade. 😆❤️

# The world of relationships # Psychology of love # Relationship # LovePsychology # SpSChannel