Facing driving anxiety can be daunting, especially when the places you want to go—like LGBTQ+ events—are at least 30 minutes to an hour away and require highway travel. I’ve been there too, feeling scared about driving on the highway but desperate to connect with queer communities and find support in person. One thing that helps is breaking the process into small, manageable steps. Starting with familiar, short drives builds confidence. Gradually introducing highway segments during less busy times can make the experience less overwhelming. Reminding yourself why these trips matter—such as meeting other queer individuals or attending meaningful events—adds motivation to push through the fear. It’s also important to acknowledge the emotional toll of being surrounded mostly by straight or homophobic people and lacking in-person queer connections. This isolation can intensify anxiety, but taking proactive steps to connect, even if it means confronting driving fears, opens opportunities for meaningful relationships. Practicing mindfulness and relaxation techniques before and during driving helps calm nerves. Listening to comforting music or podcasts related to the LGBTQ+ community can create a positive association with the drive. If possible, carpooling with friends who understand your anxiety can provide support and reduce stress. Remember, you’re not alone in feeling challenged by driving anxiety, especially when it intersects with the desire to find safe queer spaces. Each small success behind the wheel is a step toward greater freedom and community connection. Keep celebrating those victories, and know that with time and patience, the highway won’t seem as scary.