How do we know the truth or doubt the relationship of friends and boyfriends?

EP.2 The Day the Whole Earth Broke Down Front

After returning from that trip... who would have thought it would be our gang's last trip?

It started after coming back from the trip, that friend went to sleep at our boyfriend's house, and that's when we started catching some pontoons.

Back on the trip, there were a lot of events that we didn't think about, but looking back today, it was like a very loud alarm.

Eh 1: During the trip, we were very confused why my girlfriend often upset us, but instead took special care of our friends.

But at the time, we just thought that friends came alone, we didn't want friends to feel alone, so we even told their girlfriends to take care of them.

Eh 2: Every night before bed, we like to sleep and watch movies together.

But that night we were sleepy, so I asked to sleep first, and my girlfriend and friends... continued watching movies together.

When we got back from our trip, we started to feel strange when they were called, there were some words, some pronouns that seemed too close to each other, and it seemed like they were accidentally calling each other out and disrupted.

And then...

We immediately felt, "Something's not normal."

That night was like a sacred thing, or an old merit that was done.

We have diarrhea. Wake up in the middle of the night alone. We usually don't search my girlfriend's phone.

All the time we've been together, we're not that kind of person.

But I didn't know why that night. It seemed like something inspired me to pick up the phone. At first, we watched the chat.

Nothing. No other women. No suspicious messages.

Until... we opened up to chat between our girlfriend and friends.

That second, like lightning, came down in the middle of the heart, the whole numb, the shaking hands, the empty brain, and we didn't tell anyone right away.

But the next day, we went to consult a working brother who had experienced an unfaithful boyfriend.

He said, "Let's go back tonight. If the chat is still the same, there may be nothing."

We were still trying to be optimistic, and when we were late at night, we started observing our boyfriend's behavior and found out... he was unusually possessive of the phone.

I didn't let him catch it. When he was asleep, we took it again.

And that time... we were shocked to tremble, and we understood what it was like to be angry and cry.

Yes, all the chats are gone, deleted, not a single message remains, and that's what reinforces everything.

Because if nothing is true... then why delete? After that day, we choose to be quiet, not to rant, not to quarrel, not to abuse anyone, but inside we are very broken, broken without a good piece.

We cried from morning to evening, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep.

Weight dropped almost a kilo a day.

But must act normally every time he meets his face

Stay like that for three days until the day we can figure it out.

So we decided to tell our best friend in the gang, and we said only one sentence, "We caught my girlfriend having a gig."

The friends listening even said:

"Don't tell me..." Yes, everyone guessed right. Everyone said the same name.

Many friends say that when they travel, they start to notice strange things, but no one dares to say it because they are afraid that we will think that they are wandering or breaking the relationship.

When we tell everything

So everyone helped to sort out the event.

Gradually, you know, when you ask your girlfriend and friends directly, you still say that nothing, we think too much.

Finally...

We didn't quit immediately. We stayed because of the word "regret."

Too bad the time of dating Too bad the future was planned.

Too bad everything was built together.

But the truth is, despite the effort, a paranoid relationship is very difficult to live on, and it took us almost a full year to actually decide to walk out.

I still think today

If we don't wake up in the middle of the night that day, if we don't pick up the phone that day, will we know the truth...

Oh, and there's another thing that makes goosebumps to this day. Shortly before we caught it, we dreamed that a woman came to her girlfriend's house.

And they hugged each other in front of us when they woke up feeling the pain of a strange heart.

I didn't think that soon after, it would become real in another way. Has everyone ever experienced an event like this?

How did you get through it?

This teaches us that we should not bring friends too close to our relationships.

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