what's up my girl

Long Beach
2025/9/18 Edited to

... Read moreIn today's fast-paced world, building genuine connections can sometimes feel like a challenge. Whether you're reaching out to new people or strengthening existing friendships, starting meaningful conversations is key. One effective method is to ask open-ended questions that invite sharing and discovery, such as "What’s a passion that really motivates you?" or "What’s one thing about you that most people don’t know?" Being part of social communities like #gettoknowme helps foster authentic interactions, where people feel encouraged to share their stories and experiences organically. It's important to listen actively and respond thoughtfully, showing genuine interest rather than focusing solely on what you want to share. Adding a personal touch, such as recalling previous conversations or remembering small details, can make conversations more memorable and show your care. Also, embracing vulnerability by sharing your own experiences can inspire others to open up in return, creating a safe space for connection. Whether communicating online or in person, these approaches not only improve your social skills but also build deeper bonds that enrich your life. Remember, the essence of connecting is about curiosity, kindness, and mutual respect — vital elements highlighted frequently within the #gettoknowme community.

1 comment

Laylow's images
Laylow

heyy Stacey, looking great

Related posts

A collage showcasing various beauty and self-care items, including skincare products, makeup brushes, ULTAbeauty lip products, manicured nails, and haircare items, with the text 'Extreme Glow-Up In All Areas Of Life'.
A tablet displaying a bulleted list of 'Diet & Exercise' tips, including drinking water, green smoothies, balanced meals, avoiding processed foods, and daily pilates, stretching, walking, and weight lifting.
Various skincare products on a counter, with a bulleted list of 'Skincare' tips, including washing face, exfoliating, face masks, and a daily routine of cleanser, ice cubes, toner, serum, moisturizer, eye cream, and sunscreen.
Clean Girl’s Extreme Glow-Up Checklist ✨
Ready to shine brighter than ever? ✨ Here's the ultimate guide for a full-body glow-up, covering every aspect from diet and exercise to nails and fashion! 🌟 🥗🏃🏽‍♀️Diet & Exercise: Fuel your body with nutritious foods and stay active with workouts you love. 💦 🧴 Skincare: Stick to a co
irianna

irianna

9632 likes

An orange iPad with a pink and white Apple Pencil resting diagonally on its back, set against a white background. Red text overlays read "THAT GIRL iPad Setup For Productivity." A Lemon8 logo and username are in the bottom left.
An iPad displaying a lock screen with productivity widgets like a clock, Pomodoro timer, and streaks tracker. Notifications and reminders are visible. A white and beige mechanical keyboard is in the foreground.
An iPad showing a startup section with widgets for VIP emails, a daily bible verse, and a flower for aesthetics. App icons are arranged below. A white and beige mechanical keyboard is in the foreground.
That girl ipad setup and what apps I use 🌸
Hi friend! If your iPad is your go-to for pretty much everything, why not make it look as amazing as it is functional? These widgets not only help me stay organized and focused, but they also keep my iPad looking clean and aesthetically pleasing. Here are some of my favorite apps for customizing wi
Byaombe •••

Byaombe •••

2871 likes

A person in a car wearing a fluffy beige jacket over a floral dress, with a watch and pink bracelets on their arm. The image has 'WHAT'S MY AESTHETIC' text overlay, along with flower, butterfly, and heart emojis, reflecting a soft, feminine style.
A person taking a mirror selfie, wearing a light pink romper with a cutout, a pink baseball cap, and pink bracelets, holding a Starbucks drink. The background shows a cozy living room, embodying a casual yet chic aesthetic.
A pink floral makeup bag filled with various pink-themed beauty products, including bottles, tubes, and a pink star-studded claw clip. A pink stemmed glass is partially visible, showcasing a 'pink pilates princess' or 'coquette' vibe.
what’s my aesthetic?💘🦋💐
Some recent mood board pics for your Friday 💖🫧🍋 #pinkpilatesprincess #balletcore #preppyaesthetic #coquetteaesthetic #coconutgirl #vanillagirl #cleangirlaesthetic #aesthetics #softgirlaesthetic #cottagecore
keeks 🦋

keeks 🦋

625 likes

A store entrance with a partially open door featuring a colorful "Spencer's" logo. The image highlights finding home goods in unexpected places, with items available for under $40.
A hand holds a yellow "Sour Patch Kids" themed pillow, which contains smaller, colorful candy-shaped plush toys. The image showcases fun pillows available for $20.
A hand holds a folded orange blanket featuring a "Cheetos Flamin' Hot Crunchy" design. The image highlights fluffy blankets available in the $27-$40 price range.
i found WHAT at Spencer’s?! 😱🛌🪴
Honestly I was kind of on a mission when I went to the mall recently because I wanted to see how much home decor I could find in Spencer’s and I was both surprised and not let down. Their prices are pretty average and fair for the quality of good as well as where you’re shopping too. I have a b
bri.z.living 🪴

bri.z.living 🪴

11K likes

A person stands in a mirror wearing an all-black 'Clean Goth Aesthetic' outfit, featuring a long-sleeved top, wide-leg pants, a belt, and platform shoes.
A person with tattooed arms wears a black sleeveless turtleneck top and pleated wide-leg pants, illustrating the 'Minimal Pattern Overlays' aspect of clean goth fashion.
A person with tattoos wears a black crop top with 'Simple unique cuts' and black pants with a belt adorned with silver rings.
Clean Goth | What and How
✨ read before commenting please ✨ I was at work scrolling Pinterest when I got recommended a “clean goth” category…… I had zero idea what it was but I was intrigued. So I clicked. And I fell in LOVE. Goth subcultures have been blowing up in the recent years and one of the most interesting are
Mavis Shahar

Mavis Shahar

1239 likes

A blue plate on a wooden table displays a 'girl dinner' featuring hash browns, sliced banana, red and green grapes, turkey pepperoni, gouda cheese, a Clio yogurt protein bar, and Nerd gummy clusters. The image asks, 'What's in your girl dinner?'
What's in your girl dinner?
Girl dinner: a meal made up of snacks and small portions of whatever is on hand. Today I had: Seasoned hash browns A banana Grapes Gouda Turkey pepperoni Clio yogurt protein bar Nerd gummy clusters What is your favorite snack for girl dinner? #girldinner #snack #dinner
Alicia

Alicia

564 likes

A woman in an elaborate white wedding dress stands in a dimly lit, ancient stone room. Overlay text asks, "How To Stop Idolizing Being In A Relationship So Badly?" relating to the article's theme of not making relationships an idol.
A Bible verse from Philippians 4:19, highlighted in pink, states, "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus." This supports the article's message about God's provision.
A screenshot displays Matthew 6:33 from the New Living Translation, which reads, "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need." This aligns with the article's advice to prioritize God.
What Helped To Stop Idolizing A Relationship 🫣
The desire for a relationship and marriage is not a bad thing. Some times (often, really) well meaning Christians will discourage others into thinking that their strong desire for a relationship equals idolatry, simply because that is not their burden. No. That being said, it is possible to set up
Angelina

Angelina

3652 likes

What’s In My Cart? : Pt. 1
If I got an X-Ray of my heart, it’d show Jesus & fashion🤭. I love fashion, I’m good at it too! But I must give credit where it’s due🤷🏽‍♀️. God PUTS dreams& passions on our heart for a reason. So my love for fashion wouldn’t be if it weren’t for Him putting it on my heart. It’s a dream o
MYAH

MYAH

2679 likes

A stack of books and a candle with text overlay "DISTURBING BOOKS BUT IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE," introducing a list of unsettling book recommendations.
The book cover for "Crime and Punishment" by Fyodor Dostoevsky, labeled as "Guilt-Ridden," "Philosophical," and "Brooding," with a summary about Raskolnikov's psychological turmoil.
The book cover for "Lord of the Flies" by William Golding, described as "Intense," "Primal," and "Disturbing," with a summary about boys descending into savagery on an island.
“What Did I Just Read” Thriller Books 😱
Welcome, book lovers! 📚✨ Dive into the depths of these captivating reads that will leave you on wondering, “what the heck did I just read?!” 1. Crime and Punishment - A gripping psychological thriller exploring guilt and redemption. 2. Lord of the Flies - An allegorical novel that reveals the
irianna

irianna

3993 likes

What’s in my gym bag
These are my must have items for my gym bag! I’d love to know what you carry in yours😊 1. Hair ties 2. Feminine products 3. Lock 4. Beats 5. AirPods 6. Resistance bands 7. Sweat waist trainer 8. Ankle strap 9. Barbell clamps 10. Barbell pad 11. Hairbrush and leave in condit
𝑀 𝐸 𝐿

𝑀 𝐸 𝐿

1299 likes

What’s in my makeup bag? 🎀
I’m not sure if you can tell but I love Glossier 😅🩷 On TikTok I’m always posting makeup tutorials and get ready with me’s but I never actually get the chance to show everything I use, so I took this perfect opportunity to do that! Let me know what else you guys would like to see! #gloss
Sharon Carson

Sharon Carson

138 likes

🍰 vs. 🥬: What Really Matters for Weight Loss?
Let’s be real — when you first start caring about your health, the internet gets super confusing. One minute it’s, “Eat clean to get lean!” and the next it’s, “Girl, just be in a calorie deficit and eat whatever you want!” So, what actually matters more when it comes to losing weight: WHAT
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

2432 likes

What’s in my Bible Bag?🤍👜
I absolutely love my bible bag! I try my best to read my bible and keep up with my diary but it can be hard with work and family. I love taking my bag to get coffee on a sunday morning and do a bible study with my boyfriend and sister. Do you have a bible bag? What’s in yours? If not would you make
Brookie🤍🪩

Brookie🤍🪩

305 likes

What gaslighting sound like
Recognize that what they're saying isn't a joke when they try to gaslight you and make you feel like you're the crazy one. I'm here to affirm that you're not. That person is the one acting irrationally by trying to manipulate you mentally. Your partner should love and uplift you
Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

2054 likes

A woman in glasses smiles, with an iPhone displaying an Apple logo and a fire emoji. Text reads 'Guess what's coming to iphone.... iOS 18 DROPS', introducing new iPhone updates.
A hand holds an iPhone showcasing the redesigned iOS 18 Control Center with various customizable toggles and controls, highlighting a 'Way cooler control center' feature.
An iPhone message screen displays a text bubble and a row of emoji reactions, including cake and fire. Text indicates 'Tap Back Reactions use ANY EMOJIS' in iOS 18.
Guess What’s Coming to iPhone!! 🤩
The news is out! iOS18 is the sweetest update the iPhone has had in a while. At WWDC Apple officially showed the world the cool features iOS18 will bring to our beloved iPhones. And also provided me with TONS MORE CONTENT!! So, let's kick it off with the iPhone. These are just a few of my favs
techgirljen

techgirljen

2000 likes

An open light brown planner with a title page reading "What's in my planner? Part 1." The planner includes a pen holder with two pens, and a card stating "THIS PLANNER BELONGS TO Quinn."
An open planner showing a clear folder insert with decorative papers and text, including "CE QUI VAUT LA PEINE D'ÊTRE FAIT VAUT LA PEINE D'ÊTRE BIEN FAIT." The caption notes these are "Freebies that come from random orders."
An open planner displaying various decorative elements and stickers, including a "THIS PLANNER BELONGS TO" page with a sun and moon design, and a "love yourself first" sticker.
What’s inside my planner P.1
So this is just the beginning of the planner, mainly deco and stickers… I can only post 10 photos at a time but more details coming #plannerlovers #planner2024 #plannerideas
Quinn

Quinn

39 likes

IT GIRL GLOW UP GUIDE FOR AUGUST
Excited to share my It Girl Glow Up Guide for August! With school starting soon, it’s the perfect time to glow up and make a stunning first impression. In this guide, you’ll find beauty and self-care tips to help you shine from the inside out. Let’s make this August your best one yet! 🌊🌾 #augu
moonstarblvd

moonstarblvd

1008 likes

What’s in my purse 👀
My newest addition to my little collection 🙏🏼 #COACH #whatsinmybag #whatsinmypurse #girlygirl #girlythings #crystal #Lippies #cute #pretty #fun
Cat_mum^_^

Cat_mum^_^

200 likes

A person with long dark hair stands next to a dark luxury SUV. The image features the text "SEO BASICS FOR BEGINNERS" with decorative graphics, serving as a title slide for an SEO guide.
This image outlines beginner-friendly SEO tips for digital products, covering keyword research, on-page optimization including title tags and meta descriptions, and creating high-quality content with keyword integration.
This image continues beginner-friendly SEO tips, focusing on mobile optimization, link building (internal and external), and the importance of monitoring and continuous adjustment using analytics tools.
What is SEO and Why It’s Important
### What is SEO? Search Engine Optimization (SEO) is the process of optimizing a website or digital content to improve its visibility and ranking in search engine results pages (SERPs). The primary goal of SEO is to increase organic (non-paid) traffic to a website by making it more attractive to
Tia_Antoinette

Tia_Antoinette

629 likes

what’s in my purse: college edition
Everything I keep in my bag is something I actually use every day. Lip balm, hand cream, and sanitizer because staying hydrated and clean is a must. A mini brush for quick touch-ups, sunglasses for when the sun is too much, and a portable charger to stay connected. Having medicine on hand just make
Carly North

Carly North

760 likes

A cozy flat lay featuring a hand holding a mug, a light blue crochet hook, a partially crocheted chunky blanket, and a skein of super bulky yarn. Text overlays read "My Favorite Yarn" and "Thick and Cozy."
A hand holds a black skein of super bulky yarn in a store aisle, surrounded by other yarn products. The yarn is described as "thick & quick" on its label.
A man outdoors wears a large, black, chunky crocheted scarf or cowl over a brown jacket, showcasing a finished project made with super bulky yarn.
What I made with my FAVORITE yarn!
Did you know there are EIGHT different categories of yarn weight!? Out of the 8 my favorite is super bulky yarn. Size 6. I love how thick my projects turn out and how warm my blankets are! What’s your favorite? 🧶 Understanding Yarn Weights 🧵 Yarn weights play a crucial role in knitting and
Alicia

Alicia

112 likes

A collection of gym essentials including pink over-ear headphones, a clear body spray bottle, a pink lip product, and black ankle straps, laid out on a gym bag. The image is titled "Whats in My gym bag" and "Lift and cardio sesh".
A person's wrist wearing a smartwatch, displaying the time and activity rings, against a tiled gym floor background. The image is titled "Apple watch".
A hand holding pink over-ear headphones against a gym locker room background. The image is titled "AirPod maxes".
🎀What’s in my gym bag today🎀
My gym bag non negotiables! 🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🧘🏽‍♀️🏋🏽‍♀️🎀 💖 Apple Watch. I cannot and I am not kidding CANNOT workout without knowing my average calorie burn. I know it’s not 100% accurate, but it’s a good gauge of my effort. 💖 AirPods Max. 100% worth the hype. They look so cute too! 💖Rhode lip balm. N
Nydizzle🌷✨

Nydizzle🌷✨

431 likes

What’s in my gym bag? major essentials!
Hey, babes! 💖 Let’s dive into what’s inside my gym bag—my absolute must-haves that keep me feeling fresh, focused, and fabulous during my workouts. Whether you’re a gym newbie or a seasoned pro, these essentials will make your workout experience so much smoother. I’m also spilling the tea on why yo
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

1512 likes

See more