i’m not apologizing for my fatigue shutdowns anymore and that’s THAT!!

💄makeup routine:

- Hydro-Grip Hydrating Gel Skin Tint (Shade 1) from Milk Makeup

- Precision Sculpt Shaping Balm (Profile) from Haus Labs

- Cheek Stay-n (I’m Bold) from Sacheu Beauty

- 9-Pan Palette (In A Trance) from Colourpop

- Eyeshadow Single (Electric Butterfly) from Half Magic Beauty

- Chromatic Show Liner (On Cloud 9) from Moira Cosmetics

- Lights, Camera, Lashes Platinum from Tarte Cosmetics

- Wicked: For Good Cherry Blossom Blush from r.e.m. beauty

- Hawkins Milk Highlighter from Colourpop

- Duck Plump Plumping Lip Liner (Pinkjection) from NYX Cosmetics

- Fat Oil Lip Drip (That’s Chic) from NYX Cosmetics

#grwm #disabilityrant #disabledcreator #disabledinfluencer #nycinfluencer @milkmakeup @Haus Labs @SACHEU Beauty US @ColourPop Cosmetics @Half Magic by Donni Davy @moiracosmetics @tarte cosmetics @r.e.m. beauty @NYX Professional Makeup

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... Read moreLiving with chronic fatigue and sensory overwhelm can be incredibly challenging, as many experience unexpected shutdowns that are far from 'cute or sweet.' These fatigue shutdowns can abruptly affect communication abilities and mental clarity, often feeling like the internal battery has suddenly died. It’s important to recognize that such shutdowns aren’t personal, nor are they resolved simply with rest or sleep. Many who face these challenges strive to maintain connections and participate in daily life but often find the balance difficult, especially when expectations were higher during childhood or remain so in adulthood. Even sending a text can sometimes be impossible during these moments, which can be isolating but is a real aspect of life for disabled creators and influencers. Sharing personal experiences like these helps build understanding and reduces stigma surrounding invisible disabilities. Alongside this authentic expression, incorporating a joyful makeup routine can be a powerful form of self-care and creativity. Using hydrating skin tints, sculpting balms, vibrant eyeshadows, and plumping lip products from well-loved brands not only enhances appearance but also brings a sense of normalcy and empowerment. Embracing these moments honestly allows others to connect and find solidarity, whether through hashtags like #grwm (get ready with me), #disabilityrant, or #disabledcreator. It’s a reminder that everyone’s journey is unique, and self-compassion is key. Taking time to acknowledge and accept fatigue shutdowns without apology can foster a healthier mindset and encourage a supportive community.

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