heyyyyy eldest daughters. here are some book recs that might make you feel pretty seen (sorry).

📚 books mentioned:

- Lucha of the Night Forest by Tehlor Kay Mejia

- The Maiden and Her Monster by Maddie Martinez

- Sisters of the Lost Nation by Nick Medina

👗💄:

- eyeshadow is The Spring Symphony Palette from Dandy Lion Cosmetics and In A Trance Palette from Colourpop

- shimmer is a single eyeshadow (Mermaculate) from Half Magic

- mascara is Lash Extensions XL from Milani

- lip combo is Suede Matte Lip Liner (Moonwalk) from NYX Cosmetics and Gloss Up Sheer Finish Lip Gloss (Quiet Luxury) from The Lip Bar

- (also if you have a question about my makeup or something i’m wearing, most of it is curated in my shopmy!)

thank you to Get Underlined, Tor Books, and Berkley Books for the gifted copies!

#fantasybooks #horrorbooks #fantasybookrecs #nycinfluencer #booktok @Get Underlined @Tor Publishing Group @berkleypub

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5/28 Edited to

... Read moreAs an eldest daughter myself, I often find solace and strength in stories that truly acknowledge the unique pressures and responsibilities that come with this role. These book recommendations are not just entertaining—they're affirmations for anyone who has carried the weight of looking out for younger siblings or navigating the complexities of a parentified childhood. Lucha of the Night Forest by Tehlor Kay Mejia stands out for its rich sapphic fantasy world filled with dark powers and nature magic. Lucha’s struggle to protect her sister while dealing with her mother’s addiction really captures the balancing act many eldest daughters face—between caring for family and confronting personal challenges. In The Maiden and Her Monster by Maddie Martinez, the haunted forest and the exploration of faith and duty resonated deeply with me. The protagonist’s journey to protect her family while unraveling her own repressed emotions felt very real; it reflects the inner conflict many eldest daughters experience when forced to suppress their feelings to maintain family stability. Sisters of the Lost Nation by Nick Medina offers a powerful look at Indigenous sisterhood and community activism against systemic oppression. Anna’s fierce determination to protect her sister amid supernatural and societal threats is both heartbreaking and empowering. This book widened my perspective on diverse narratives and reminded me of the strength found in cultural roots and traditions. These books not only offer gripping fantasy and horror plots but also speak to the lived experiences of eldest daughters dealing with caregiving roles, grief, and resilience. Exploring such themes through diverse voices and genres has enriched my appreciation for stories that go beyond the surface to explore family dynamics and sisterhood deeply. Also, Steph’s makeup recommendations create a wonderful connection between personal expression and storytelling, highlighting how confidence and creativity go hand in hand. If you’re looking for more ways to feel seen and understood through literature, these selections are an invaluable start. They remind us that amid struggles, we aren’t alone—and that strength often comes from the bonds we nurture along the way.

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