HOW TO HAVE THE BEST SEX EVER 🖤

First and foremost you need to find or be with someone you feel confident and safe with, otherwise this does not apply. Sex should be a safe place for exploration and for many people, it isn’t. Making sure the person you’re with is an energetic match to you and that you all are on the same page will eliminate a lot of concerns and future problems from arising.

If you have someone in your life that you feel you vibe with next you’re gonna….

Hone in on that affirmation work and loving on yourself extra hard. If you’re obsessed with you, odds are they will be too. Get a new outfit or something sexy to wear or better yet, spend some time figuring out what you like when it comes to sex.

A shift in perspective about sex is also in order here. Sex is a creative energy and an opportunity to share intimacy with someone which can be really healing for both of you.

And a mega bonus is how good sex is for your health. Talk about a full body workout!

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2024/8/29 Edited to

To achieve the best sexual experiences, it’s essential to create a nurturing environment built on trust and understanding. One of the core aspects is ensuring that your partner is someone you connect with on an energetic level. That means evaluating whether both of you share similar perspectives and desires when approaching intimacy. Additionally, incorporating self-affirmation practices can greatly enhance your confidence. Engaging in positive self-talk and taking time to understand what you find appealing sexually can transform your mindset. This heightened sense of self-love not only improves your sexual relationship but can make you more attractive to your partner as well. It's also beneficial to see sex as a form of creative expression. Viewing intimacy as a collaborative art form can deepen the connection between partners. This shift in mindset can aid in healing past traumas, ensuring that both parties feel valued and understood during intimate encounters. Health-wise, studies suggest that regular sexual activity can lead to numerous benefits such as improved cardiovascular health and stress relief, essentially making it a fun and engaging way to prioritize your wellbeing. Embrace this journey as both a personal and shared exploration of pleasure and intimacy!

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RRectro_Spectro

If you’re not married don’t do it. It saves you trouble , doubt, lust, seeking validation etc etc. just wait !

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Markimuss

Well from the biblical prospective yes you should wait til marriage (two become one flesh) Biblically sexual immorality is the only sin committed outside the body. It wasn’t uncommon even in the time of Jesus for sex outside of marriage to exist hence the issue with temple prostitution. However these women were looked down upon then as well. When Jesus encountered the woman at the well who was sleeping with men he confronted her sin and then forgave her and told her to “Go and sin n more”. In a biblical sense sex was created by God for our enjoyment and waiting til your married delivers the first experience of sex to you in an already intimate setting. Scripture says to have sex often and the only time to abstain from sex was to take time for prayer. Sex is an intimate connection and created for our enjoyment and to unite us and bring us closer together. Now with that being said it should only happen when both the man and woman are in agreement for it and never as a “reward” and never ever I can’t say enough evers be demanded. Arguing with your spouse? Go knock boots and watch the arguing become less and less. There’s healing in the intimacy. Outside of marriage it becomes a tool for a temporary fulfillment that never satisfies and usually leaves one or both partners with regret. That in itself can cause long term emotional damage and rob the joy of the experience from you and your spouse when marriage does come into play. Men- Most of the time women aren’t ready at the drop of a hat like we are. It takes connection and emotional presence. Try giving her a full body massage first. Let her know your intentions before hand. Light some candles. Put on that special song that is important to you both. Wear cologne. Show her you’re interested in more than just “her body”. If she still isn’t there, tell her it’s ok. Tell her you love her regardless and when she’s ready you will be there and give her confirmation that you only desire her and won’t stray. She needs it

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