HOW TO HAVE THE BEST SEX EVER 🖤

First and foremost you need to find or be with someone you feel confident and safe with, otherwise this does not apply. Sex should be a safe place for exploration and for many people, it isn’t. Making sure the person you’re with is an energetic match to you and that you all are on the same page will eliminate a lot of concerns and future problems from arising.

If you have someone in your life that you feel you vibe with next you’re gonna….

Hone in on that affirmation work and loving on yourself extra hard. If you’re obsessed with you, odds are they will be too. Get a new outfit or something sexy to wear or better yet, spend some time figuring out what you like when it comes to sex.

A shift in perspective about sex is also in order here. Sex is a creative energy and an opportunity to share intimacy with someone which can be really healing for both of you.

And a mega bonus is how good sex is for your health. Talk about a full body workout!

#lemon8partner #wellness #relationships #intimacy #healthysex #sexlife #traumahealing #sexualhealth

2024/8/29 Edited to

... Read moreTo achieve the best sexual experiences, it’s essential to create a nurturing environment built on trust and understanding. One of the core aspects is ensuring that your partner is someone you connect with on an energetic level. That means evaluating whether both of you share similar perspectives and desires when approaching intimacy. Additionally, incorporating self-affirmation practices can greatly enhance your confidence. Engaging in positive self-talk and taking time to understand what you find appealing sexually can transform your mindset. This heightened sense of self-love not only improves your sexual relationship but can make you more attractive to your partner as well. It's also beneficial to see sex as a form of creative expression. Viewing intimacy as a collaborative art form can deepen the connection between partners. This shift in mindset can aid in healing past traumas, ensuring that both parties feel valued and understood during intimate encounters. Health-wise, studies suggest that regular sexual activity can lead to numerous benefits such as improved cardiovascular health and stress relief, essentially making it a fun and engaging way to prioritize your wellbeing. Embrace this journey as both a personal and shared exploration of pleasure and intimacy!

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I feel that just being comfortable during it and with your own body makes it 100x better, like I find more pleasure with just being happy w my own body

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