[Snip-PHETS of My Life] Friend with heart of gold

Reconnecting with a friend after a decade is always a special experience, made even more meaningful when shared passions like sign language are involved. Having learned SEE back in 2004, and now witnessing its evolution into Singapore Sign Language (SGSL), highlights the growth and recognition of the deaf community's identity and communication preferences. It’s inspiring to see how Gerbera’s initial motivation—to assist someone she truly wanted to help despite language barriers—sparked her journey into sign language learning and advocacy. From my own experience, learning sign language develops not only your communication skills but also your empathy and understanding of diverse communities. It bridges gaps that spoken language sometimes cannot. Also, celebrating such friendships with traditional gestures, like receiving oranges symbolizing "huat huat" or good fortune, adds a beautiful cultural layer to the story. Moreover, the playful yet practical conversations about insurance between the two friends underscore an important lesson. Insurance and financial planning are crucial life tools, and when shared among trusted friends, those discussions become less daunting and more relatable. It’s a reminder that supporting each other emotionally and financially strengthens bonds. Lastly, understanding that members of the deaf community prefer the term "deaf" over "hearing impaired" respects their identity and culture. It’s a small but significant way to honor who they are. In all, these moments reflect how friendship, cultural respect, and practical support intertwine to create enduring connections that enrich our lives in many ways.