How Long You've Felt Alone....

We used to think love was all about effort and time. But we learned the hard way that sometimes, it's what you're still doing that's slowly breaking the bond. Tiny things. Daily things. Habits you don't even question until they start making love feel heavy. If you want to gro

If you’ve ever felt like you want to learn more don’t have the time or focus, you’re not alone. I used to think learning had to be slow and intense—until I started using BeFreed. Here’s how I use it to learn faster (and smarter): 📚 1. GET STRAIGHT TO THE CORE IDEAS BeFreed condenses nonfiction

Anatomy and Physiology was one of the hardest classes I’ve ever taken! not because the information wasn’t interesting, but because I didn’t know how to study it. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unmotivated, or unsure if you’re doing things right, you’re not alone. Here are 7 struggles I personall

if you’ve ever been the odd one out or the ‘other’ in your school or community, these books might bring you some comfort. both of them feature really interesting stories with speculative elements, and both narrators have lovely arcs where they become more confident in their identities and also f

Embrace Your Shadows — A 30-Day Journey Within If you are here, it’s not by accident. Something deep within you is ready to heal, to rise, and to remember the truth of who you are. This e-book is more than pages and prompts—it’s a mirror, a companion, and a safe space for you to begin facing the

If you've ever opened your Bible, stared at the thin pages, and immediately felt underqualified to even try… you’re not alone. That was me, too. For the longest time, I thought Bible study was only for pastors, or people who woke up at 5am with color-coded pens; people who have grown up in c

For a long time, being alone felt uncomfortable. Like something I needed to escape. But once I slowed down and started treating my alone time with softness, everything shifted. I decorated my space for me, made little rituals out of mundane moments, and stopped waiting for someone else to make

Emotional abuse doesn’t just hurt. It rewires your brain, your reactions, and the way you see yourself. So many survivors wonder why they feel stuck, why they can’t “just move on,” or why the pain still lingers long after the relationship ends. These are some of the most common emotional pain po

You have carried yourself for so long that softness feels unfamiliar. 🤍 You do not have to live in protection mode forever. Imagine a life where your body relaxes, your mind slows down, and you no longer have to be the strong one. Soft Girl Method guides you into a calmer and more supported ver

Sometimes the hardest loneliness isn’t being alone, it’s feeling unseen in a room full of people. You laugh, smile, and carry on conversations, yet deep down, you feel disconnected. Maybe you’re surrounded by coworkers, friends, or even family, but still feel like no one truly understands what y

Living alone for the first time is liberating, lonely, beautiful, and sometimes… a little scary. In this post, I’m getting personal about what it’s really like — the highs, the hard moments, and the healing ✨ From building routines that ground me 🌅 to learning how to feel safe in my space (hello

if you’ve been feeling anxious in social settings, just know: you’re not alone. so many of us have felt awkward, scared, or out of place — but you can grow through it. confidence is a muscle that strengthens each time you exercise it. i used to avoid talking to new people because i was worri

As a Black woman who travels solo, safety isn’t just statistics to me. It’s how I feel walking alone. How people respond when I say no. Whether I blend in or feel hyper-visible! Every place has nuance. But these are the ones where I could explore confidently and exist fully without constant hyp

A long time ago I got a balayage and my hair got really dry 😫 It’s normal with any hair dye but I noticed my ends became more susceptible to damage from heat tools and the Sun (I live in TX). I felt like I could never get my hair to fall perfectly flat even with a hair straightener. I tried many, m

Let’s be real—being alone can feel awkward or even lonely at first, especially when we’re so used to constant noise, people, or distractions. But learning to enjoy my own company turned out to be one of the most empowering things I’ve ever done. Here’s how I made peace with solitude and actually st

I absolutely love living alone but it took awhile to adjust to this new lifestyle. Here are some of the things I did that made living alone feel luxurious: Picking out decor items that felt like ME. I loved animal print and incorporating it into my space made it feel more mine - something I hadn’t

✨ Okay… why did no one tell us from the jump that period pain could hit our butts too?! 😭 I remember the first time it happened, I was curled up thinking, “This cannot be normal”. It literally felt like someone was pulling a string from my lower back down through my body. I genuinely thought someth

I’ve had people tell me that it’s normal and explain their thoughts but they were no where as morbid as mine, bc it is normal to be like “where do i go when i die?” it is NOTHING like that when i finally got the courage to tell some of my friends and the details of the thoughts they told me they

Countries I felt SAFE as a solo female traveler ⬇️ 1. Thailand The locals in Thailand are so kind and willing to help. Of course you need to look out for scams but in terms of SAFETY as a woman, I felt 100% okay here and would go back in a heartbeat. This is the most comfortable place I'

If you’ve ever found yourself staring at your notes for hours but barely absorbing anything, you’re not alone. I used to believe that the longer I studied, the better my results would be. But over time, I realized that studying for long hours without breaks wasn’t making me more productive—it was j

No matter how much we want to deny it, we are now officially living in a time with AI💡Instead of rejecting its existence, we should turn it into our best friend and navigate it to go through our busiest days💻 I’m currently a Senior in college WITH a Part-time job which I need to go 20hrs/week🥲I de

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how lonely growth can feel—even when you’re surrounded by people. Whether you’re building a business, raising a family, or both, there are moments when the weight feels heavy and the road feels long. I’ve had those moments—when I wanted to pull back, hide, and

Wondering how long skincare takes to work? ⏳ As a licensed esthetician, I get this question all the time! Every product has its own timeline — cleansers and moisturizers can give instant results, while ingredients like retinol, niacinamide, and vitamin C can take weeks to show changes. If you’ve

#vulnerability #selflove #foryoupage How I felt today: This was a huge moment for me today, I am wondering how many people have felt this way? “The feeling of loneliness, when you are in the same room with someone you love ” Very interested to know if this is common in relationship