idk what too do

i've been in love with him for two years. I loved him the first day I met him and every day I told him first ago and love him and he said he was with me too. I wouldn't even different towns and we don't get to see each other very much and there's quite a bit of age difference. im the older woman he is a year younger than my oldest son, I don't know what to do. He says he doesn't care. I love him and I believe with all my heart he loves me, but would it be fair to put him through 20 years of being with an old person? I don't know what to do. I wanna love him till i die , but I don't wanna ruin his life. I don't wanna ruin his chance of finding forever with someone his own age.ugh he is everything I've ever dreamed of everything I've ever prayed for. He's everything to me... he makes me laugh. I make him smile we get along so perfectly together. We're so freaking happy together, and if it wasn't for the age difference we would be married by now.what should i do call it off or go for it

Georgia
2025/2/26 Edited to

... Read moreLove knows no age, but navigating a relationship with significant generational differences can be challenging. Many couples face societal pressures and personal doubts when it comes to age gaps in romantic relationships. Understanding each other's perspectives and having open, honest conversations is crucial. It's important to assess how both partners feel about the relationship's dynamics. While love can be deep and genuine, longing for a long-term commitment should be thoughtfully evaluated, particularly when children and future prospects are involved. Additionally, considering how an age difference impacts life stages, career goals, and personal growth is essential. Couples in such situations often find themselves contemplating the value of companionship versus the fear of societal judgment. Ultimately, the decision should hinge on mutual respect, understanding, and unwavering love. Seeking advice from trusted friends or professionals can also provide clarity and reassurance during this emotional journey.

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