Life after break up (HIKING)
Again??? 🤣
Yea, I told myself, “Again?” — “Table for one, please.”
I tried to fit my feet into shoes that were too small, and in the end, they only hurt me. I couldn’t stay in them any longer. Sometimes, the best thing to do is buy a new pair of shoes.
That’s exactly what happens when you sacrifice too much of yourself for love. Fall in love, but don’t be foolish. 🙂
I won’t go deeper into my breakup story today. Instead, I’d like to share my first hiking experience at Bukit Timah.
The trail itself wasn’t that long, but wow... the slope was no joke. 🤣 My face was red, my legs were questioning all my life choices, and I kept wondering how much further the summit was.
But somewhere along the way, I realized something.
Healing is a lot like hiking.
You don’t need to rush to the top. You just need to keep moving, one step at a time. Some parts will be steep, some parts will make you want to turn back, but eventually you'll reach a point where you can look back and see how far you've come.
Life after a breakup doesn’t have to be about finding someone new immediately. Sometimes it’s about finding yourself again.
And honestly? The fresh air, the greenery, and the challenge of the climb felt a lot better than sitting at home overthinking. 🤣
So if your heart is tired, maybe don't chase people. Go chase a mountain instead. ⛰️❤️
After going through a breakup myself, I found that taking time for self-care and outdoor activities like hiking can be truly transformative. When I decided to hike Bukit Timah Nature Reserve, I didn’t expect just a physical challenge but also an emotional journey. The trail, though not very long, has a steep slope that tests your stamina and patience. Just like healing from a heartbreak, the climb requires persistence and acceptance of slow progress. The summit of Bukit Timah stands at 163.63 meters, and reaching it offered me a sense of accomplishment that no quick rebound relationship could provide. During the hike, the fresh air and greenery wrapped around me, replacing mental chaos with calmness. It reminded me of the importance of pausing and reflecting instead of rushing into the next chapter. One useful tip I learned is to respect the park’s regulations, which protect its natural beauty. Signs remind visitors to avoid littering, smoking, or introducing foreign elements that could harm the environment. Taking care of this shared space mirrors the self-care needed after emotional pain. If you're feeling lost after a breakup, consider going for a walk or hike—not necessarily a long one, but enough to get your mind off worries and reconnect with your body and nature. One step at a time is all it takes, and sometimes the toughest climbs lead to the most beautiful views.
It’s a good time to save money and spend money on stuff