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ðŸ˜ąMeet your colleagues in mood swings? Read this post first..

🍋 Have you ever... had to work with a colleague who

The mood is up and down. ðŸ˜Ū‍ðŸ’Ļ

Some days talk well, some days throw work, some days throw offense.

This is a "hands-on" method that works in 👇

1ïļâƒĢ Closed the way, thrown work

Don't take floating jobs without a deal.

Let's say this: "Let's check with the boss if this job is within our scope."

👉 makes every job "clear owner."

2ïļâƒĢ to be thrown.

Summary of every job via chat / line

Like: "In a nutshell, this job you take care of X, we take care of Y, send Friday."

👉 There's proof = end of the story twist problem.

3ïļâƒĢ answered still, but clearly.

Penalty = No emotion required

"We do as we agree in this statement."

👉 polite, but won't be drowned out.

4ïļâƒĢ People don't listen to anyone? "Choose."

Instead of arguing, try: "There are two ways. A and B, what is your convenience?"

👉 Change the game from batter → Let him decide.

5ïļâƒĢ Set boundaries.

Like manners / health.

"Can I have a space here that's smoke-free?"

👉 Your rights must be protected.

6ïļâƒĢ Stop the negative emotional cycle.

If he's in a bad mood: "I'll talk to him while I talk about work."

👉 and "Stop talking."

7ïļâƒĢ Use the help system.

If it hits the real job: ✔ïļ Keep the evidence.

✔ïļ There's a clear example.

✔ïļ Talk to the chief.

👉 This is not a lawsuit, it's a "job solution."

8ïļâƒĢ Adjust yourself (very important)

Some people may have emotional control problems.

But ❗ that's not an excuse for him to hurt you.

👉 I understand, but I don't have to.

ðŸŒŋ Helmeful Helmee (conscious Mu Sai)

If you feel tired, check it out: âœĻ Merit / Sanction

âœĻ. Mercy before bed.

âœĻ 1 day of negative power.

👉 Change "our heart" to be stronger.

ðŸ’Ą Short summary

✔ïļ Don't take a job that's not yours.

✔ïļ Everything requires evidence.

✔ïļ to say little, but clearly.

✔ïļ Set boundaries and actually do

Finally...

"Stillness" is an underrated power.

When you're still enough,

👉 He'll influence you a lot less.

# Colleague problem# Meet my colleagues in mood swings?# Mental health is more important than other people's words # Synthetic

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