Title: "Sometimes...The best love is to give each other freedom. "

We are often taught that "true love must endure" and "true couple must not break up."

So many times, we tried to hold a broken relationship, hold a piece of glass in our hands when the blood was flowing, just because the words "regret time" or "still love."

But in the reality of the psychological and relational world..."Love" and "living together" are different stories.

1. When "Jigsaw" can't connect...Doesn't mean which piece is wrong.

Imagine two pieces of Saw trying to connect them together, but no matter which corner, they still "force."

If we force it down, Jigsaw may be twisted, deformed and damaged.

A relationship that can't go on is like a different Jigsaw.

You're not wrong to be like this. He's not wrong to be like that. We're just "not a piece of each other" in this moment.

To accept this fact is not to give up, but to respect the identity of both sides.

2. End role...But the memory is still

Some people come into our lives to be "life partners" who live until the last day.

But some people...Come in to be a "teacher."

He came in to teach us love, to calm us down, to teach us what we don't like, or to teach us to be stronger.

When he is done, when the lesson is complete, his departure (or we have to walk out) does not mean that the relationship "fails."

But he has fulfilled his purpose. Thank you for the lesson and move on.

3. Letting go is the highest form of love.

If you love a flower, you'll cut it in a vase - > Finally, it will wither.

But if you really love a flower, you will allow it to grow on a tree, even if you do not have it.

Unable love is the test...Do we really love him, or do we just love our own happiness with him?

If we really love him and know the way forward, it's not his place or our place.

Dare to say goodbye, and return his freedom to meet the right person, or to find the right path...That's the most precious "last gift" you can give each other.

Conclusion

Don't blame yourself for not keeping it. And don't be mad at him for going.

Think of us as two travelers who happened to meet, share water, share stories around the fire.

When the dawn comes...We all have to pack our bags and walk our own "compass."

Disperse, grow.

And always welcome...If one day you hear that you're happy, even in a space without me,