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Is it standards or Ego 😬🤷🏽‍♀️ #strict #strictprogam #dating #2026goals #trendingtiktokviral

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Yes that’s so true. My friend now he was a foster child. He’s has tried to reconnect to his family and been betrayed. He use to get missing for days at a time. Sleep and gambling. I had to give him grace but it taught me patience. I had never experienced anything in my life. But when I say he don’t pls about me. It’s all ❤️❤️ people need to hear this 🥰

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