Is office politics really that bad?

My mom's been working in the same industry for 25+ years. She always tells me to enjoy college because it gets worse after that meaning 'office politics'. She often rants about toxic people at work who don't do their job and mooch off of others. My aunt and uncle (at different companies) agree with her. I've only done internships for a few months so I obviously can't get enough time to observe if it's bad. Experienced devs, what's your take?

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2024/8/21 Edited to

... Read moreOffice politics can be a daunting aspect of many workplaces, often leading to stress and dissatisfaction among employees. With the rise of remote work and flexible environments, the dynamics have shifted, yet the core issues remain. Understanding how to navigate office politics is essential for a successful career. Many individuals are unaware of the subtle cues and behaviors that are considered political maneuvers. It's not just about manipulation; it can involve forming strong relationships, effective communication, and creating a positive impression. Those who succeed often do so by being aware of their surroundings and understanding the motivations of their colleagues. Effective strategies to handle office politics include transparency in communication, building alliances, and focusing on your work—demonstrating your value to the organization. When faced with toxic colleagues, it's crucial to maintain professionalism and set boundaries. Experienced professionals often advise embracing a mentorship approach or creating a support network among peers to discuss challenges openly. This collaborative environment can foster a sense of security and provide a platform to collectively address workplace issues. In summary, while office politics can be a troublesome terrain, with the right approach and mindset, it is navigable, and you can emerge positively from these experiences.

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Love yourself enough to limit releasing personal business. people are also trying to size each other up. Be polite, but don't get into gossip. Don't allow folks to ask you your personal business. it's work, not a place to mk friends. Just tell them politely this is wrk & I m not releasing that to you.

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Mara Marr

I don’t talk politics at work. That is the hugest thing for me. I grew up being taught “you’re there to collect a paycheck, not make friends.” And I’ve had my share of trying to make friends and want not. After so long I just started keeping to myself at work.

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