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🚀 How to raise a "first-born" child to a happy home and not break down first

Having children one year apart is like taking a big roller coaster. The first 1-2 years may be rotating until their mothers are not addicted, but the amazing advantage is that they are growing up with the best friends in their lives, and this is a technique to help their parents cope happily with this trajectory. 1. Adjusting your life schedule to the "same time" (Sync Schedule) The key to recovering your parents' broken body is "doing everything at once." * Try to adjust your daytime, shower time, and eating time to the same or the same time as possible. When children sleep at the same time, that is, the "golden time" for your mother to rest or take a nap to charge your battery. Do not spend this time on housework until your body collapses. 2. Do not expect the eldest to be "mature" too soon. When a younger brother is born, the eldest brother who is only one year old is immediately seen as a "elder," but in fact, he is still just a baby who needs to embrace and carry, not unlike the younger, be careful to use the word "I am a brother, I have to give you a brother," because he does not understand this logic, giving the eldest a lot of love and attention to reduce his attention or envy behavior. 3. Pulling the eldest to be a "little helper." A child who is one year old likes to imitate and likes to feel involved. Pulling him to help raise his younger brother will help build a bond and reduce his frustration very well, such as: "Can you pick up a pample for your younger brother?" "Come help your mother sing a lullaby," when he gives you a great compliment to make him proud as a brother. 4. Buy toys and do "shared" activities. The good fortune of children one year apart is that they have very similar development. They can soon play the same toy, tell the same story, and go to the playground together. Train their children to "take turns" from a small age. Sharing and laughing together will be the best picture of their parents. 5. Be kind to yourself and accept help. The most important thing is that "parents are not Superman." The house may be a bit messy. The dishes may not be washed. The cloth may be piled up, let it go first. If a relative or husband volunteers to help carry the younger, send the younger immediately and take the eldest child to walk to the wind, so that he can rest assured that the mother still loves him. Find time to make eye contact with each other and encourage the partner. Because this is the time to truly collaborate as a team. Tired, but most heartwarming. Encourage both myself and the house with children of the same age as this house. ❤️

 # First year at the end # Raising children # Howing to raise children # Share about children # Raise your own child

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