The whole step of Twin Flame.
The word Twin Flame is a spiritual concept and belief in the New Age group, not a scientifically confirmed theory or a doctrine of the main religion. Therefore, the "steps" do not have a single standard, but a pattern that most believers describe as similar:
1. Preparation
Both sides are believed to live separately to learn their own lessons, e.g.
Childhood wounds
Past relationships
Self-improvement
Learning about forgiveness and loving yourself.
Many believe that this phase will have events that drive huge growth.
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2. Meeting (Recognition / Awakening)
When we meet, the experience is often described as
Feels strangely familiar.
It feels like you've known each other for a long time.
There's a strong attraction.
Like the other side reflects our identity
Some people call this range
Soul Recognition
Spiritual Awakening
But psychologically, these feelings can also occur in intense relationships, not necessarily "twin flames."
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3. Bliss Stage
As the range
Violent love
Understand each other easily.
It feels like everything fits.
I believe I found the "right person."
Many people describe this range as being in heaven.
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4. Mirror Stage
This is the range that is most often talked about.
The other side will reflect
Fear
Uncertainty.
Old wounds.
Knot in childhood
Anger
Attachment
Believers see the other as not intending harm, but a "mirror" that reflects what has not yet healed.
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5. Crisis (Crisis)
Start being born.
The quarrel.
Misunderstanding
Jealousy.
The fear of loss.
Stress
Some pairs reach
Break up
Blocked together
Gone.
No contact.
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6.Runner-Chaser Dynamic
It is the most mentioned range in the Twin Flame concept.
Runner
Party that
Escape relationships
Fear of attachment.
Fear of change.
Want freedom.
Chaser
Party that
Try to contact
Trying to explain.
Want to reconcile
Stick to the relationship.
Believers see this as a lesson for both to grow.
However, many psychologists warn that using this idea to describe relationships that deny or disrespect each other's boundaries can lead to the real problem being overlooked.
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7. Separation (Separation)
Could last.
Several months.
Many years.
Or never meet again.
It is believed that each party must
Healing wounds.
Develop yourself.
Stop relying on the other for happiness.
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8. Dark Night of the Soul
Many believers describe it as the heaviest range.
There might be
Sadness
Emptiness
Questioning Life
Big change.
In a psychological perspective, this kind of experience can occur as a result of a significant loss or transition in life, without being meant as evidence of Twin Flame.
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9. Healthy remedies
This phase begins
Love yourself
Pardon.
Let go
Reduce attachment
Developing the mind
Many believers see this as a more important phase than getting back together.
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10. Surrender (release)
Is the point
Not chasing.
Not forced.
No, stick.
Accept the results.
The energy of the two is believed to begin to balance.
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11. Reunion (reunion)
If both grow enough, some believers believe they will meet again.
The characteristics mentioned are
The relationship is stiffer.
Respect each other.
Not too emotionally dependent.
Support each other's growth.
However, a number of believers agree that not all couples will be dating, even if they see it as Twin Flame.
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12. Union (becoming one)
In this concept, being "Union" does not necessarily mean being married or living together.
Could mean
Self-inner balance
Acceptance of both the light and the dark sides of one's side.
Living according to their own goals.
Benefiting others
Some strands believe that a Twin Flame couple may work or create something meaningful together, but there is another believer who sees achieving inner integrity as more important than being together.
Summary of the order often referred to.
1. Prepare before meeting
2. Meet
3. Honeymoon period
4. Reflecting wounds
5. Crisis
6.Runner-Chaser
7. Separate
8. Dark Night of the Soul
9. Remedies
10. Let go
11. Reunion (may or may not be born)
12. Union
It is important that the Twin Flame concept is a spiritual belief, not a scientifically proven fact. If a relationship is characterized by control, harm, or disrespect for each other's boundaries, it should not be considered a thing to endure simply because it is believed to be "Twin Flame." A good relationship should always be based on the respect, consent, and safety of both sides.
