Friends be fake as fukk
So I’m at my friends house and she got a fridge full of food, freezer full and her pantry on swole. She got snacks, sodas, meat, noodles….. errthang!!!
I proceed to ask her can I get a few things to get me and my kiddos through the week til my stamps hit. She tells me no that she just used the last of her stamps and I know that her brother and his girl and they 3 kids staying over there. Kool, no biggie! Ima figure it out like I always do!
We sitting there chillin and she gives me her phone to read this message from her ex. I’m reading the message and a notification pops up from the food stamp app talking about your December deposit just hit. I click the notification and it’s opens the app. Why TF is this girls balance $8xxx and she acting like that with me.
What would you say? Kuz I be loaning this broad money, my car, shiit food too. I think I’m boutta swang on her kuz why she playing in my face. Someone come bond me out plz#flabbergasted #broke #scammed #fakefriend
It's really tough when someone you consider a close friend acts differently than you expect, especially when it involves basic needs like food and support. In situations where trust is broken because a friend refuses to share despite clearly having resources, like hundreds or even thousands of dollars in their food stamps account, it stings deeply. Many people rely on food stamps (EBT) to help feed their families during tough times, and it's heartbreaking when a friend who appears well-stocked denies even a little help. It's possible that sometimes these actions come from personal boundaries or financial stress we don’t fully understand, but when combined with dishonesty—such as claiming to have no funds while notifications say otherwise—it can feel like an undeniable betrayal. Dealing with fake friends isn't easy. Sometimes you may feel used or taken advantage of, especially when you’ve loaned money, cars, or helped in ways that make their refusal sting even more. It’s important to protect yourself emotionally and financially, and to set clear limits. True friends support each other without hidden agendas or harsh judgments. If you’re facing this kind of situation, consider these steps: 1. Communicate openly with your friend about what you’ve observed and how it makes you feel. Sometimes misunderstandings occur, but often silence can hide bigger issues. 2. Seek support from other trusted people in your life—family, other friends, or community resources—that can provide help without strings attached. 3. Focus on self-care and your children's well-being. Prioritize finding solutions that ensure your family’s needs are met, whether through local assistance programs or community aid. 4. Reflect on your friendships and consider the value they bring to your life. It’s okay to distance yourself from relationships that cause stress or harm. Remember, a healthy friendship is built on trust, respect, and mutual support. If someone consistently acts fake or selfish, it’s a reflection on them, not your worth. Sharing your story and learning from others can bring healing and stronger connections in the future.
