My First DNF of the Year: A Love Letter to Whiskey
My first DNF of the year and honestly… that’s okay.
A Love Letter to Whiskey by Kandi Steiner is a fan favorite for a reason, and for so many readers it’s a 5-star, emotional ride. For me, it landed at about a 2.5—and I made it 57% in before deciding it just wasn’t for me.
And here’s the thing: DNF’ing a book is not a bad thing! I love reading too much to force my way through something that isn’t connecting. Not every book will hit the way you expect, even when it seems like it should be right up your alley.
There’s value in knowing when to say “thank you” and move on to something that will resonate more.
Have you ever DNF’d a popular book? What was it?
DNF, or "Did Not Finish," is a term many readers use when they decide to stop reading a book before completing it. It's a practice I've learned to embrace because reading should be enjoyable, not a chore. When I reached 57% of "A Love Letter to Whiskey" by Kandi Steiner, a book well-loved for its emotional depth and slow-burn romance, I realized it just wasn’t connecting with me the way I expected. This book touches on heavy themes like complicated family dynamics, alcoholism, and friends-to-lovers romances — subjects that usually engage me deeply. That said, not every story will resonate with every reader, and that's perfectly okay. Recognizing when a book isn't for you can enhance your overall reading experience by allowing you to redirect your time toward books that truly captivate you. For example, some readers cherish the nuanced portrayal of high-school-to-senior-adulthood transitions featured in this novel, while others might prefer a faster pace or different narrative style. Personally, giving myself permission to DNF has been liberating. It relieves the pressure of finishing something just because it's popular or critically acclaimed. Instead, it encourages me to curate my reading list based on what genuinely resonates with me emotionally and mentally. If you find yourself struggling with a book, ask: Is this enriching my reading journey or draining it? It's all about balance. Have you ever DNF’d a highly praised book? How did it impact your reading habits? Sharing these experiences fosters a supportive reading community where everyone feels comfortable exploring what truly suits their taste. Remember, your relationship with books is personal and flexible — and that’s where the joy of reading truly lies.