Do more choices actually make us less free?
We talk about freedom as if it expands with every new option. More products, more pathways, more possibilities.
But have you felt that the more choices we gain, the harder it becomes to actually choose. As I researched the story, I took a look the psychological roots behind it, “two concepts of freedom”, the myth of the perfect decision, constraints, and why JOMO (joy of missing out) might just offer a more durable form of freedom.
Available for free with an ad-free reading experience at the link in bio, the story unfolds as a philosophical discussion. (📷: Igor Omilaev/Unsplash)
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In today’s society, the common belief is that increased choices are synonymous with greater freedom. However, psychological research and cultural observations suggest otherwise. The phenomenon known as "choice overload" explains how an abundance of options can overwhelm our decision-making abilities. Every choice, as noted, demands mental energy to evaluate, compare, and decide, which can often result in decision fatigue or impulsive, unsatisfactory choices. This psychological burden challenges the notion that unlimited options represent true freedom. Instead, it introduces the concept of "two concepts of freedom": negative freedom, or freedom from constraints, and positive freedom, which involves having the capacity to make meaningful choices. Often, the flood of options undermines positive freedom by creating anxiety and indecision. Interestingly, constraints can sometimes feel liberating precisely because they reduce complexity. This idea is exemplified by the popularity of Marie Kondo's "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up," which highlights how decluttering and limiting possessions relieve psychological stress and promote wellbeing. Furthermore, the JOMO (joy of missing out) mindset offers an alternative way to experience freedom. Rather than fearing missed opportunities, JOMO encourages embracing fewer options and focusing on what genuinely enriches life. This shift fosters contentment, reduces social pressure, and nurtures mental clarity. The philosophical discussion around freedom and choice invites us to reconsider our cultural assumptions. By understanding the psychological roots of choice overload, the myth of perfect decisions, and the liberating potential of constraints and JOMO, we can redefine freedom as a state not of endless options but of mindful, meaningful engagement with fewer, well-chosen possibilities.




