What Spanking Does to a Child’s Brain
Many of us grew up believing spanking was a normal part of discipline.
But research from the Harvard Graduate School of Education suggests that spanking may have lasting effects on a child’s brain and emotional development.
In the study, children who were spanked showed greater activity in brain regions involved in threat detection and emotional regulation. Their responses were similar to those seen in children who had experienced more severe forms of maltreatment.
This doesn’t mean parents are bad.
Many caregivers are doing the best they can with what they were taught.
But awareness matters.
When we understand how children are affected, we can choose discipline strategies that teach with patience, connection, and compassion.
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Source: Harvard Graduate School of Education
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Having read more about the lasting effects of spanking on children’s brains, I wanted to share my own experience trying to adopt alternative discipline methods with my younger siblings. Before learning about the neuroscience behind spanking, I believed it was a normal and sometimes necessary part of parenting. But knowing that spanking increases activity in brain regions involved in threat detection and emotional regulation, much like more severe maltreatment, made me rethink my approach entirely. One breakthrough was focusing on positive discipline strategies that emphasize patience and connection instead of punishment. For example, when my younger sibling acted out, instead of reacting with anger, I took a moment to calmly explain why the behavior was problematic and what they could do differently. Over time, I noticed they became more responsive and better at regulating their emotions during challenging situations. I also found it helpful to understand that many caregivers resort to spanking not because they want to hurt their children but because that’s often what they learned growing up or due to stress. Providing support and education can empower parents and caregivers to break this cycle and choose kinder, more effective methods. The study's findings about spanking eliciting brain responses similar to sexual abuse were shocking but helped me grasp the severity of its impact on mental health risks such as anxiety and depression. This motivated me to advocate for stronger policies that protect children from corporal punishment in schools and at home. Ultimately, every child deserves to grow up feeling safe and loved, supported by caregivers who understand the science behind discipline and emotional development. By sharing what I’ve learned and practicing these approaches, I hope we can collectively break the cycle of physical punishment and foster healthier, happier childhoods for the next generation.
