𝐈𝐭 𝐂𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐘𝐨𝐮, 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐓𝐨𝐨 𝐃𝐚𝐦𝐧 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐯e

She’s not sugarcoating it today.

She said what needed to be said:

If it’s costing you your peace — it’s not love.

It’s emotional debt, and the interest?

Is everything you’ve been losing piece by piece:

Your sanity.

Your sleep.

Your sense of self.

Let’s stop pretending peace just disappears. It doesn’t.

You give it away — to stay, to be quiet, to make it “work.”

You trade it for silence. For not being alone.

For one more day of being tolerated instead of loved.

But here’s the truth:

If you’re constantly questioning yourself, constantly shrinking just to keep someone around…

That’s not love.

That’s survival mode.

That’s you paying in pieces for something that’s bankrupting you.

And Zariah?

She’s done with the discounts.

She’s not negotiating your worth.

Not today. Not ever.

If it’s costing you you…

Stop. Paying.