Replying to @Grandma Kathy 2021 💙💛 learning how to sit with others has been my favorite “hard” lesson ❤️‍🩹 #matriarchyrising #healingjourney

2025/9/13 Edited to

... Read moreHealing from trauma, especially Complex PTSD (CPTSD), often involves more than just personal recovery—it requires deep connection and understanding between individuals. One of the hardest and most valuable lessons is learning how to "sit with others" in their grief without rushing to fix or dismiss their feelings. Grief, as shared in this experience, has been a persistent and profound presence for many years, making the ability to empathetically be with others in their pain essential for genuine healing. Sitting with someone in grief means offering a space where emotions can be fully expressed and validated. It’s about bearing witness and sharing the vulnerability that grief brings. For those living with CPTSD, this practice becomes even more critical and complex, given the layers of trauma and heightened emotional sensitivity involved. People often feel isolated because many don’t know how to support someone who is grieving or struggling mentally. The feeling of wishing someone "knew how to sit with me" highlights the profound need for empathetic presence. The journey through grief teaches resilience not through fighting or resisting pain but by learning how to stay—comforting as well as being comforted. This echoes a larger cultural shift where healing is recognized as non-linear and communal rather than solitary. In addition to personal experiences, practitioners and communities focused on healing emphasize the importance of emotional literacy and patient listening. Tools and approaches such as trauma-informed care, mindfulness, and peer support groups can facilitate this sacred act of companionship in grief. For anyone on their healing journey or supporting others, remember: grief is not a problem to solve but a process to experience. Showing up fully, even when it feels difficult, creates space for transformation. And as shared in this reflection, "This too shall pass," reminding us that healing is possible through shared humanity and persistent compassion.

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