Lesson 9: Scar

This morning, listening to the Mission To The Moon podcast "Even if you don't get a layoff, you can get a scar," and then thinking about your life as a scar.

📓 first job.

The left wound is not what is expected, fully determined, year after year, not promoted, and then come back to the beginning of the work that there was a long-time elder layoff despite the offer of a Golden package. And what will happen to us next?

What we learn is that our lives are not always happy, and there is no permanent suffering, and there is no stable job in the world.

People always fall, but how many times they fall, they always get up again.

After so many years, we learned that we have a life path that does not need to be proven to anyone.

Don't need validation from anyone either.

🙍🏽‍♀️ when mom's sick.

"There is no money, little opportunity" - even if there is civil service welfare, but if you find an out-of-account that needs to be bought to save your life, money is the most important.

The wound was that with the money we had, we couldn't fully save her.

It's good that she finally recovered, and I spent that money taking her on a journey to travel the world she dreamed of.

The most precious thing is the smile of a watchman to see the world.

👨🏼‍🦽 when Dad was sick.

Alzheimer's literally made us learn the word "disengage." Decline of the genitive is common. Seeing a father who was a doctor who had a memory regression until he even forgot, swallowing, and breathing.

Bedridden care is not easy. I hired a 24-hour father caregiver, knowing that if I took care of her, she would be very tired and stressed.

The lesson from that range is - caring for aging guard parents takes a lot of money.

Care, bed, diaper, food, everything costs.

Without money and self-care, we will lose our freedom in life.

So I decided to save to take care of myself in the future.

Don't burden anyone - especially when we're single.

👩‍💻 hard work under pressure.

Wounds are stress, little sleep, regressive health.

But when we get through it, we get stronger.

The lesson taught is that "working hard for a period to learn is good."

The pressure turned the charcoal into diamonds, but we have to know enough.

When the body warns to rest - it has to stop.

🏢 company goes out of business.

The wounds are the anxiety and fear of the day that needs to be restarted.

But what that trace leaves is a warning to be sober and careless.

Life is unstable. The stability we have today may disappear in the blink of an eye.

🌎 certain events when it comes to life - even as time passes, it still leaves scars as a reminder.

First night... torture

The first month... still translates

Year after year... no longer hurt, but not forgotten.

Finally...

Warriors have wounds.

And the wounds of time are the precious gifts of life.

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