Trying to find the perfect excuse not to go out.
I used to go everywhere. If I could drive it and had money for gas I was gone and doing and seeing and experiencing.
Now, I can’t remember the last time I drove 🙈 or went to a gathering because I already knew I would have to bow out early. I am not about ruining the fun for anyone else just because I can’t participate. So, I just hang back and hope that I get to hear some good stories after.
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