🤱🏻Part 1: How to Foster Secure Attachment
As a survivor of childhood trauma and now a person who has devoted their life to helping others heal their own, having a child of my own has led me even deeper into my journey than I ever thought possible.
My goal is to give my daughter a childhood she won’t have to heal from— and I know that so many of you are also trying to do the same thing with your own babies— so I thought I would share what I know in the hopes that it supports you on your journey of parenthood.
When I was in my Master’s program, I double specialized in early childhood development and trauma, and what I learned completely changed what I thought I knew about raising children.
During the first 12 years of life, our children are soaking every single thing in and creating a sense of identity, self-worth, and belief systems around all of these early experiences.
Research shows that children who have secure attachments with their caregivers categorically have better life outcomes in every aspect as they grow up.
They have brains and nervous systems that develop healthily, are less prone to illness and disease, suffer less with behavioral issues, are more emotionally intelligent, empathic and regulated, have higher intelligence levels, higher levels of confidence and seeing themselves as good people who are worthy of love, have healthier romantic and platonic relationships, less mental health issues and are generally happier and healthier in every way.
You have the ability to support them in having all of this just in the way you interact with and respond to them and their needs — even starting during pregnancy.
✨ Here are 4 ways you can begin fostering secure attachment with your baby (focusing on age 0-6 months)✨
I’d love to know what you’re curious about when it comes to childhood development, parenting, pregnancy and babies!
👇🏼Drop any questions or comments below — I’m here to help!
Gabby
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Creating a secure attachment in infancy is one of the most vital aspects of parenting. This initial bonding period lays the groundwork for emotional health and resilience later in life. Research indicates that babies who receive consistent, responsive caregiving develop higher self-esteem, better emotional regulation, and stronger social skills. Establishing routines around feeding, sleeping, and play can significantly enhance a child's sense of safety and predictability. These practices help decrease anxiety, foster independence, and promote healthy identity formation. Additionally, physical closeness, such as skin-to-skin contact, is essential for infants. It not only soothes them but helps in emotional regulation, allowing them to feel secure and understood. Eye contact during interactions promotes a stronger emotional connection, making your baby feel seen. Lastly, being attuned to your baby’s needs—responding swiftly and with empathy—builds trust. This trust is the cornerstone of secure attachment, contributing to a well-adjusted and emotionally intelligent child who can navigate relationships effectively as they grow. Through these methods, you have the power to ensure your child has a nurturing environment from the very beginning.