When we moved into our Texas home, the backyard was covered in Bermuda grass—a non-native variety that’s great for playing on but doesn’t contribute much to our local ecosystem. So we kicked off Project: Kill the Lawn—just in the backyard, of course. (We have an HOA, so the front yard has different rules.)

Jacob and I have different visions for what a backyard should be, so we compromised. Some space is reserved for lawn, and the rest is dedicated to growing areas and pollinator gardens.

After about a year and a half—and with help from some amazing friends—we successfully eradicated the last of the Bermuda grass. We tried growing buffalo grass from seed… and failed. Miserably. The yard turned into a bit of a wasteland, and the lack of vegetation was causing drainage issues since dry, compacted soil doesn’t absorb water well.

Eventually, we bought buffalo grass sod and laid the whole backyard—again, with a little help from our friends.

Buffalo grass is native, requires significantly less water, and has a deeper root system that helps retain moisture and reduces stormwater runoff. The first few months took some diligent watering, but now that it’s established, it pretty much takes care of itself.

Jacob and I have a “mow area” and a “mow every once in a while” area. The coolest, most magical part of the mow every once in a while zone? Wild dill has started growing there—and it happens to be a favorite host plant for Black Swallowtail caterpillars. Which means: butterflies!

So far, we’ve spotted about five caterpillars, and the kids are experimenting with creating a chrysalis habitat so they can watch the transformation up close. If you have tips for building habitats or best practices for releasing butterflies, we’re all ears.

It’s amazing how quickly nature responds when we make space for it. Butterfly populations in the U.S. have declined by 22% in the last two decades—largely due to choices we make in our own yards. But even without the statistics, I just love watching how excited the kids get as they discover new insects all around them.

Anyway… thanks for coming to my rant. Really, this post is just me being excited about finding three caterpillars outside today. Yes, it might be my highlight of the week—but that means it’s been a good one. 😅

2025/6/30 Edited to

... Read moreIn the quest for a sustainable backyard, selecting the right grass is crucial. Buffalo grass, known for its drought resistance and deep roots, can significantly improve soil health and support local ecosystems. It's essential to understand that non-native grasses like Bermuda can lead to water wastage and increased pest issues. By choosing to remove Bermuda grass, we invested in native flora that fosters biodiversity. Establishing a backyard wildlife habitat can be incredibly rewarding. Start by incorporating native plants that provide food and shelter for various species, especially pollinators. For those interested in butterflies, host plants like wild dill not only attract these beautiful insects but also offer educational opportunities for children to observe their life cycle—something we've enjoyed immensely. Create diverse spaces within your yard, such as low-mow areas, to allow nature to flourish undisturbed. This approach not only reduces maintenance but also enhances the beauty of your outdoor space. Furthermore, taking the time to educate oneself and family about local wildlife can deepen your connection with nature and foster environmental stewardship. Remember, every small change can make a substantial impact on wildlife conservation.

11 comments

Shelba Forrest's images
Shelba Forrest

❤️❤️❤️

Related posts

THIS HAPPENED WHEN WE MOVED INTO AN RV🤯
We were in what felt like a rut, same house, same area, same routine and it was very dull after awhile. Not that we don’t have somewhat of a routine on the road in terms of “normal” things like homeschool, work, etc.. but we absolutely strive to enjoy more moments because we are routinely going to
Ash🚌🌎✈️

Ash🚌🌎✈️

74 likes

My apartment when I moved in vs…
When I first moved into my apartment it was a total blank slate. White walls and uneven wood floors that desperately needed some rugs for added softness! Almost a year later and I’ve really made a little place to call home. I love how relaxing my space feels and I’m always excited to come home
Sarah Elizabeth

Sarah Elizabeth

5464 likes

New apartment - before we moved in🍋🌸🥰
This was our first 3 bedroom apartment when we moved down to Florida. We excited and scared about what our future holds as we are originally from NY. Although the apartment did not have the most updated appliances. We definitely made this place feel like home. #firstapartment #lemon8challenge
Chink407

Chink407

1960 likes

I moved into my first house! 🏡
🦄 What sort of changes or challenges did you face after moving into your first house? 🦄 I made a big move at 27, stepping into my first home on June 9, 2024. Now, at 28 with a birthday on July 1st, I reflect on my journey. From living solo in two apartments to becoming a homeowner after setting
BIG $HAY 🎀🧸

BIG $HAY 🎀🧸

2413 likes

We’ve moved & this is still accurate.
#husbandandwife #homedecor #moodyvibes #homerenovationideas
Emily

Emily

2871 likes

Before I moved into my apartment
Before I moved into my apartment versus now! The difference is so stark 😱 Remember that decorating a home takes time so make sure you find pieces that you really love and are gonna take with you throughout your different spaces! That way you’re not buying new things in each space. #Lemon8pa
Sarah Elizabeth

Sarah Elizabeth

2603 likes

We moved into our starter home in 2020! 🏠
Here’s some things we’ve done since moving into our starter home in 2020. This all took 5 years! Home takes time. Especially if you’re on a budget and had two kids in under two years 🤪 our first home is so special, we’ve had so many beautiful memories here starting out our life & some of th
Brittany Pigeon

Brittany Pigeon

818 likes

A smiling Catherine O'Hara with short, wavy reddish-brown hair and blue eyes, wearing a light-colored blazer and large, ornate earrings.
Catherine O'Hara on a red carpet, wearing a black velvet dress with white fur trim, a black hat, and holding a small black clutch.
A black and white image of Catherine O'Hara with curly hair, wearing a patterned top under a leather jacket, holding a small item.
The mom to all of us, has moved into the light 🕯️ rest in peace Catherine 😔
#catherineohara #beetlejuice #homealone #fyp #shittscreek
ᎷᎧᏒᏰᎥᎴ ᎷᏬᏕᏖᏗᏒᎴ™️

ᎷᎧᏒᏰᎥᎴ ᎷᏬᏕᏖᏗᏒᎴ™️

54 likes

QUITTING HIS JOB AND MOVING INTO AN RV🤯
Lennon quit his job that kept him away from our family for 10+ hours a day, we sold our house and 90% of our belongings and moved into an RV to travel full time and homeschool our son. And you know what? These were some of the best decisions we’ve ever made. Our only regret is not doing all of t
Ash🚌🌎✈️

Ash🚌🌎✈️

38 likes

A vibrant field of orange and pink dahlia-like flowers with mountains in the background, featuring the text 'WE MOVED Pt. 2' and the Lemon8 handle.
A lush rose bush with pink, orange, and white roses against a blue sky, listing 'CONSIDERATIONS:' for moving, including cost, location, lease, employment, manpower, and community.
Three bouquets of white daisies and orange/pink flowers wrapped in brown paper, with the text 'Purpose in Pruning JOHN 15:1-2 Apart from Jesus cannot bear good fruit'.
We moved Pt 2. 💐
How we did it: Prayer was a huge deal throughout this entire process. This was a step of faith. Although I am a planner and do well in thoroughly organized environments, our relocation needed more than just logic and checklists. Moving is tiresome. As much as my husband and I wanted to move
Pretty S-O

Pretty S-O

2 likes

Sneak peek into our new 🏠
Excited to share a glimpse of our new home! We're so grateful to have found this amazing space. Stay tuned for more updates as we settle in. What do you want to see more of? #Lemon8Diary #newhome #hometour #newhomevibes #homeaesthetic
Meka

Meka

642 likes

When i say i moved on but....😫
#lemon8relationship #moveon #healthylifestyle2024
Rose Matthews

Rose Matthews

26 likes

Moved our room around
It was driving me nuts not having space to walk every single time with the crib next to my bed We moved in maybe 3-4 months ago and we hadn’t switched anything around I think it makes the room look and feel bigger & I love having the extra space to walk freely when I get up #cr
Elenaa(:

Elenaa(:

285 likes

MOVED INTO MY NEW APARTMENT
#lemon8diarychallenge #prayer #newapartment #movedin #3bedroom
Ricki

Ricki

2709 likes

This happened when we moved into an RV😱
Here’s what happened when we moved into an RV full time… We fell back in love with life! We were in what felt like a rut, same house, same area, same routine and it was very dull after awhile. Not that we don’t have somewhat of a routine on the road in terms of “normal” things like homeschool
Ash🚌🌎✈️

Ash🚌🌎✈️

16 likes

A dorm-style room with two beds, two desks, and a window with blinds. A green and white plush toy sits on the carpet. Overlay text reads 'SHE WANTS ME TO PAY HER HALF', highlighting the roommate's demand for rent.
Roommate Moved Out but Wants Rent
after 10 months of living with the worst roommate ever messy, manipulative, always late on rent she finally moved out early. Took all her furniture, said she won’t be paying utilities anymore because “she’s not living there.” I’ve been paying equal rent for the smaller room this whole time. The
Glazi

Glazi

1672 likes

Moving into my First apartment
I moved into my first apartment 4 months ago, here are some tips and tricks for when you plan on moving into your first apartment! . Get things prior! - me and my boyfriend were using plastic utensils for a good while before we got actual good ones to use! - going to the dollar tree helped sa
Lilghoulghost

Lilghoulghost

12 likes

Pov you just moved to your new apartment
Turning my apartment into a home✨ I added the rug how do y’all think it looks? I’m gonna add a few more things.  #new apartment #apartmentvibes #apartmentlife
Moe Moe

Moe Moe

585 likes

When we moved to China…
juliiachina

juliiachina

110 likes

Moved and out! 📦🚚
We’ve moved on to a new chapter, but we’ll always cherish the time we spent in our first home. 🏠🤎 #moved #firsthome #goodbye #firsthome #movinghouse
Meka

Meka

231 likes

POV: you just moved into your new apartment✨
#newhome #apartmenttour #newapartment #fyp #lemon8home
MoniQuee

MoniQuee

2402 likes

5 Shoulder Moved Every Shy Girl Should Try ✨
Shy ☺️ girls, ready to carve out that upper hourglass look? You don't need a gym-just some space, a wall, and determination! Here's a shoulder workout you can do anywhere: 💗 1. Push-up + Lying Shoulder Press: Combine push-ups with a lying shoulder press using a resistance band. This will
Zara_Sanchi

Zara_Sanchi

28 likes

Turn Your Mess into Millions 💰
Turning Your Mess Into Millions 💎 Every successful entrepreneur has a chapter they don’t post about. The bounced payments. The late nights. The doubt. The “maybe this isn’t for me” moments. Here’s a short story for you: A woman once started a small home-based business from her kitche
𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 👑

𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐈𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 👑

12 likes

Love Moved First
This is the story of a runaway With no way home and no way out I threw the best of me away I had my chance, it's too late now Too far gone and too ashamed To think that you'd still know my name But love refused to let my story end that way You didn't wait for me to find my way to
Andrea

Andrea

0 likes

An interior view of a converted van, showcasing a kitchen area with green cabinets, wooden countertops, a sink, and a stove. A bed is visible in the back. Text overlays read "Moved in" and "We now live in this van...", with Lemon8 branding.
The interior of a converted van, featuring a kitchen area with green cabinets, wooden countertops, a stove, and a sink. A bed is visible at the rear. Text overlay states "I have a lot to fill you in on...", with Lemon8 branding and yellow graphic elements.
A "Lemon8 ID Card" graphic displaying a photo of a cat. The card lists "MBTI CAT", "Birthday May 13", "Post BOSS", and characteristics including "Dash cat", "Extrovert", and "Napping". Lemon8 branding is also present.
I moved into the van 🚐
Hiya! Last we chatted I gave you the beginning inside scoop of the BEGINNING of the van build. Well honestly I didn’t have much time to sit down and write out what was going on because we finished the build in 26 days… If you don’t believe me, check out my TikTok @ TheCommunityBeehive I a
Bee Bing 🌱

Bee Bing 🌱

159 likes

what do you wish you knew before you moved out for the first time?
my boyfriend of nearly 5 years & I are currently packing our things to move into our first home together. i am so unbelievably excited! but also, i am so unbelievably anxious LOL. my family has obviously offered their advice & things, but i feel like there’s so much more to know. whether it
🫧

🫧

7 likes

Empty apartment I moved into in April, just happy
Empty apartment I moved into in April, just happy to be here. I mean, I have a few things here now like a bed and one couch but I’m excited to fully furnish. Can’t wait to get everything I want to make it feel homey. Saving for an additional couch currently. It’s like a 1,013 SFT studio
BIG Pete 🏳️‍⚧️

BIG Pete 🏳️‍⚧️

116 likes

Moved into my First apartment
“Officially moved into my first apartment! 🏡✨ From moving around so much to creating my own cozy space, this is the start of a new chapter. Grateful for every step that got me here! 💪🏽💛 #FirstApartmentVibes #NewBeginnings #HomeSweetHome ”
VoodooDoll

VoodooDoll

33 likes

So I got into a new relationship….
I know most of you know me from the “I got broken up with over text post” AND IM HERE TO TELL YOU… It happened for a reason. I think God knew the way my ex cut things off would allow me to detach extremely quickly… and he was right. As soon as I was not wanted— I learned, I healed, and I moved o
Angelina🦋

Angelina🦋

138 likes

A college student's NYC apartment for the summer, featuring a desk with a lamp, chair, and window with black blinds, ready for move-in.
A person's legs in jeans and sneakers resting on a suitcase inside a vehicle, with an excavator visible outside, indicating travel from the airport.
A street view between tall buildings in NYC, featuring a 'Rector St' sign and three cartoon figures floating in the sky.
college student moves into nyc apartment
This summer, I moved to NYC for 3 months! This meant packing my entire life into 3 suitcases. I don’t know how I managed to do it… but somehow I figured it out! This was from my first day in NY when I had to fly all the way from CA. It was definitely stressful! #lemon8partner #lemon8col
ada

ada

6 likes

We Moved 🏡 🛻🌞
We moved. Pt. 1 My hubby and I moved almost two months ago. After many conversations, numerous prayers and endless tears we decided to move in with his parents (same State just 5hrs away). To keep it short and sweet, I was struggling to increase my hours and clientele as a BHT (behavioral healt
Pretty S-O

Pretty S-O

15 likes

Move into my apartment with me
I officially moved into my apartment yesterday!! I’m so excited to see how it comes together :) #apartmentlife #first apartment #new apartment #apartmentdiaries #moving
em🫶 | lifestyle content🪩🩷

em🫶 | lifestyle content🪩🩷

412 likes

Moved into my first house at 25
I am very blessed and thankful to be able to move into my first home. I have moved out of every apartment every year I have rented out since 18. I hated living in those apartments. I always had problems with leasing and management and they always felt so small. I finally moved in to a 3 bd/ 2.5ba a
Brianna Nicole

Brianna Nicole

190 likes

Why we moved into an RV?
We didn’t move into an RV for the ‘aesthetic.’ We did it because our life needed a reset, more family, less noise, and a chance to rebuild everything from the inside out. It’s messy, tiny, loud, and… somehow exactly where God planted us. 💛 Welcome to our little rolling miracle. #rvlife #rvlif
The Polo Family

The Polo Family

26 likes

Why your ex lover has moved on and you haven’t.
Are you tired yet? Are you tired of all those feelings you have in the vault chewing away at your relationships and at your own sense of peace and happiness? It’s time to heal! And you need the right resources. Here they are: get them now: ‘Badass Counseling Show’ podcast (now w/ 2.5 MILLION downl
BadassCounseling

BadassCounseling

38 likes

We moved into a new apartment I’ve already messed
Update did y’all miss me well I’m on punishment.
Kadijah 1st time mommy

Kadijah 1st time mommy

78 likes

Moved into my first new apartment💛✨
Haven’t been posting for awhile but it’s been a week that I moved in and I’m at peace and it feel great.😝💛 #my own apartment #new apartment #first apartment #apartmentdiaries #apartmentjourney #Lemon8Diary #peace
QueenNae👸🏾💛

QueenNae👸🏾💛

210 likes

Finally moved into my own place
Stay tuned to watch me transform this space ! Any tips on decorating? #roomtour #shareyourthoughts #decor #apartmentideas #newapartmentvibes
Heidy✨

Heidy✨

619 likes

The Plant Toddlers Have Officially Moved In 🪴
The plant toddlers have officially settled into their summer home 🌳🪴🏡✨ After their fully buckled hour-long ride from Capitol Market, they’ve now found their forever spots on the mountain—and oh my goodness, it truly feels like they were always meant to bloom right here. One found its place wh
MyHairShop

MyHairShop

1 like

Just moved into our new home🩷
SUMSEXYMF GIGI

SUMSEXYMF GIGI

158 likes

I Moved to the UK as an American: Here’s how!
Dreaming of moving to the UK? Here's exactly how I made it happen as an American (and how you can too!) 👉 Disclaimer: I’m sharing my personal experience, not legal or visa advice. Always do your research! 💼 Easiest way to move? Through studying! A student visa is your golden ticket. The
Sierra | Slow Travel

Sierra | Slow Travel

206 likes

We Moved 📦
I’m a little late getting this posted, but I still wanted to take a moment to say thank you!! Our opening at the new location meant so much to us, and seeing the community show up, support us, and celebrate this new chapter was truly incredible. Your encouragement, kind words, and excitement r
Fern & Key

Fern & Key

11 likes

A cozy reading nook featuring a white bookshelf filled with books and adorned with various potted plants. Two floating shelves above display more plants and framed pictures. Sunlight streams in, highlighting the space. Text overlay reads "+ READING NOOK".
A comfortable dark green armchair with an orange pillow sits by sunlit windows with blinds. A tall floor lamp and a small side table with a plant are beside it. A framed sign and a decorative wreath hang on the wall.
A wide view of a cozy reading nook with a large round woven rug on the floor. A white bookshelf filled with books and plants is on the left, facing a dark green armchair by bay windows.
I turned my dining room into this✨
My dining room was literally NEVER used. When I first moved into this apartment I thought about making this a space to read in but was hesitant. The other day I just bit the bullet and did it, and I DO NOT regret anything! I think that this space will get cozier and cozier! Thank you, Abba, for
Mikayla Barnes

Mikayla Barnes

490 likes

I MOVED OUT AT 19
I took a big step out into the world w my favorite person ever and I wouldn’t have it any other way blessings to us and our home
Glorianna 💅🏽

Glorianna 💅🏽

21 likes

The Gates Are Open: Sovereign Harmony Has Moved.
🕊️✨ I am beyond excited to announce that the Sovereign Harmony Apothecary has officially transitioned to its new home on Square. This shift is more than just a website change; it is a grounding of the mission to provide high-frequency medicine and transmissions to those ready to reclaim their po
Taj-ha | Sovereign Priestess

Taj-ha | Sovereign Priestess

6 likes

You moved to a new town
Sorry if its short! #fallvibes🍂 #newtown #slideshowgames #fyp #vira l
Emma❤❤❤

Emma❤❤❤

112 likes

How I Accidentally Moved in With My Boyfriend 🏠❤️
Moving in with your partner is typically something you do further into your relationship as a planned serious decision, but not for us! I didn’t plan to move in with my boyfriend. We had only been dating for a few weeks when a serious car accident flipped everything upside down- literally. I
caroline 🫶🏼

caroline 🫶🏼

38 likes

Moved In ✨🫶
From a vision to reality ✨ I’m so happy to share that I’ve moved into my own suite at Caviar Salon & Spa! This is a huge step for my nail journey and I can’t wait for my clients to see it in person 🩷🖤 #NailTransformation #NailDesign #SelfCareDay #PamperYourself #NailTrend
Melina

Melina

18 likes

i moved out at 18- my advice 🍋🫶
i moved into an apartment with my (now) fiance just over 6 months ago, so here’s my advice!! - save as much money as possible beforehand: my goal was to save at least $1,000 before i moved. depending on the cost of living where you are, you might need to save more. keep in mind deposits are VER
ashley 🎀🪩

ashley 🎀🪩

131 likes

See more