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40 years from now, what kind of life will you live?

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... Read moreการตั้งคำถามกับสิ่งที่สังคมกำหนดให้เป็น 'มาตรฐาน' ของชีวิตเป็นสิ่งที่สำคัญมาก เพราะหลายครั้งเราอาจถูกบังคับหรือถูกชักจูงให้เลือกเส้นทางที่ไม่ได้ทำให้เรามีความสุขจริงๆ ส่วนตัวผมเคยลองทบทวนดูว่าแท้จริงแล้วผมอยากมีชีวิตอย่างไรในอีก 40 ปีข้างหน้า ผมพบว่าการเลือกทางเดินที่จะทำให้มีความสุขอย่างแท้จริงสำคัญกว่าการทำตามกฎเกณฑ์ที่คนรอบข้างคาดหวัง “Chapter ถัดไปของชีวิต” ไม่จำเป็นต้องเป็นความสำเร็จทางอาชีพหรือการเงินเสมอไป แต่คือการได้ใช้ชีวิตอย่างที่เราเป็น ได้ทำในสิ่งที่รักและมีความหมายกับเราอย่างแท้จริง ตามคำพูดที่ว่า "Just do it." คือการลงมือทำในสิ่งที่เราฝันและเชื่อมั่น ว่าจะทำให้ชีวิตเราเต็มไปด้วยความสุข ผมจึงอยากชวนให้ทุกคนลองหยุดคิดถึง "กฎเกณฑ์ของสังคม" และลองถามตัวเองว่า "คุณอยากเป็นใครและอยากใช้ชีวิตแบบไหนในอีก 40 ปีข้างหน้า" การมี Growth Mindset หรือมุมมองที่เปิดกว้างต่อการพัฒนาและเปลี่ยนแปลง จะช่วยให้เราพบเส้นทางที่เหมาะสมกับตัวเองมากขึ้น ไม่ว่าคุณจะเลือกเส้นทางแบบไหน เป็นเรื่องดีหากเลือกที่จะใช้ชีวิตอย่างมีสติ และสร้างความสุขในแบบของตัวเองเสมอ ชีวิตไม่จำเป็นต้องสมบูรณ์แบบเพียงแค่เรามีความสุขในทุกวันและกล้าเริ่มต้นบทใหม่ "My Turn" คือช่วงเวลาของคุณที่จะเลือกและทำในสิ่งที่ต้องการอย่างเต็มที่ ท้ายที่สุดก็อยากให้ทุกคนจำไว้ว่า การทำตามหัวใจและออกจากกรอบที่สังคมตั้งไว้ไม่ได้แปลว่าเราผิด แต่เป็นการให้โอกาสตัวเองได้ใช้ชีวิตอย่างเต็มที่และมีความสุขในแบบที่เราต้องการจริงๆ

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