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Sometimes you have to reset the algorithm so you can see a different perspective.
I'm not a pastor, bishop, preacher, deacon, apostle, prophet, or any other title. I'm just a regular believer trying to follow Christ. But one thing I decided a long time ago is that I'm not interested in spending all day bashing women or scrolling through booty pics. 😂😂😂
If social media is your primary source of information, you'll eventually start believing every man is a cheater, every woman is for the streets, every marriage is miserable, and nobody can be trusted. That's what happens when your entire worldview is built on a highlight reel of dysfunction.
The reality is there are still good men. There are still good women. There are still healthy marriages, faithful friendships, and God-centered relationships. The problem isn't always that good people don't exist. Sometimes the problem is that we've surrounded ourselves with the wrong circle.
The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:11, "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
Part of spiritual maturity is realizing that everybody isn't the same. Just because one person hurt you doesn't mean everyone is out to hurt you. Just because you've experienced betrayal doesn't mean loyalty no longer exists.
Think about Elijah. After dealing with so much drama, he thought he was the only faithful person left. God had to remind him that there were still 7,000 people who hadn't bowed to Baal. In other words, Elijah's perspective was limited by what he could see.
Sometimes we're the same way. We get hurt by a few people and start believing everybody is toxic. We meet a few dishonest men and think all men are dogs. We encounter a few broken women and think all women are a problem. That's not discernment. That's wounded thinking.
And can we be honest for a minute?
I can't speak for all of Georgia, but I've noticed some men gossip more than the women they complain about, and some women carry enough pride to challenge the men they're criticizing. Everybody wants to point fingers, but very few people want to look in the mirror.
The Bible says bad company corrupts good character. If everybody around you is messy, dramatic, dishonest, and negative, it may be time to examine your circle instead of assuming the whole world is broken.
Maybe the algorithm doesn't need to change.
Maybe the company you keep does.
Stay prayed up. Stay discerning. Stay growing. And don't let social media convince you that God's people have disappeared. They're still here.
In my personal journey, I’ve found that the digital environment we immerse ourselves in heavily influences our mindset and emotional well-being. Social media, while a powerful tool for connection, often exposes us to an overwhelming amount of negativity, gossip, and distorted realities. When I decided to consciously reset my own "algorithm"—that is, the content and people I engaged with online—it was as if a heavy fog lifted. I began to recognize that the overwhelming narratives of betrayal, dishonesty, and broken relationships were not the complete picture. One practical step I took was to be intentional about who I followed and the type of content I consumed. I sought uplifting, faith-affirming accounts and communities that focus on positive relationships and spiritual growth. This shift helped me guard my peace and redirect my focus from toxicity to encouragement. It became clear that the "bad company corrupts good character" principle is relevant even in the digital age; what we repeatedly expose ourselves to shapes our attitudes and beliefs. Furthermore, I realized the importance of balancing online perspectives with real-world experiences. Engaging in local faith groups, friendships grounded in trust, and open conversations helped me dispel the notion that everyone is untrustworthy or broken. Like Elijah, sometimes we feel isolated in our values and beliefs, but often, there are many others quietly living out fidelity and love around us—beyond the screen’s limited view. Taking time to pray, reflect, and grow spiritually has been essential in this process. It encourages discernment that is rooted not in cynicism but in hopeful realism. By resetting the algorithm—not just digitally but also mentally and spiritually—we can protect our peace and foster growth. Remember, the company you keep profoundly affects your worldview. Be intentional to surround yourself with those who build you up and reflect the goodness and faithfulness that still exist in the world. Ultimately, changing your algorithm means more than tweaking your social media feeds; it means cultivating a mindset and community that align with your values and support your spiritual journey.
